Hi Brenda, I am so sorry for your loss. I have not experienced losing a spouse but have lost many loved ones. I lost my son, Zach, on September 3rd and am having a hard time accepting that he is gone. You are in my thoughts and prayers. hugs. Robin

Hi Brenda, so sorry for your loss, I also lost my husband fast, he died instantly while trimming tree branches, he fell and I never saw him again.  It has been a year for me and he was the Love of my Life and best friend, those  first months were so painful I didnt think I could make it.  But with the help of family and a few close friends they helped me through the pain. I know it seems like it will never get better, but believe me it will, baby steps.  It never goes away, but it does get better little by little. and it helps to talk to other people about it, when you share your pain it makes it more validated. hope this helps....Cathy...I will keep you in my prayers and thoughts

im am sorry 4 your loss i know you must hear that a lot trust me i do  to and i hate it but im only 40 days in on my 365 day year  so far im holding things together while watching everything fall apart in my life  and this sudden death thing really sucks for me because it make me feel like in a way my wife was murdered we never knew including her that she had this just one day at one moment she was talking and stuff the next she was gone like a light switch i dont know how your michael passed or if your at that point  to talk about it but if you ever need or want some one to talk to im hear for you ok once again thank you  for the kind words  my prayers are with you