Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Sandra Nichols
Broken Arrow, OK
United States
Profile Information:
- About Me:
- I need support form recent loss of my mom. My best friend. She lived with me for 8 years and then died from complications of cancer treatment. I feel lost and go between numbness to total grief that I can't stand.
- About my Loss:
- My mother passed one week before Thankssgiving this year. I am in shock, denial, and grief. I am not coping with my job well. I get angry at coworkers that ask me if I am having a good holiday. How can people ask that?
- Are You a Service Provider? If Yes, please tell us about your service.
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MIchael A Ballard
Hello Sandra,
Very sorry for your loss, and we all are here for you.
Through my experience, this is the best place for support and friends.
Loss is terrible and we all know how you feel.
Hope to chat on here with you soon!
Peace and prayers,
Michael
Dec 20, 2011
Lisa Gladieux
Dec 28, 2011
Bob Naples
Sandra,
The evening before my near-death experience,I saw my mom materialize about 12-15ft. in front me.It was 7 years after she passed over to the next life.The whole visitation lasted about 45 minutes,and I can't recall what we talked about off the top of my head,but I do have it documented word for word.My mom was mom,dad,friend,etc.all in one,and I once told her that I didn't know what i was going to do when she passed.She said if there is any way that she could call me home with her,she would try.The last memory of my visitation was mom motioning with her hands,calling me towards her.The very next day,I had my nde,and as I was going into the light,I could hear my 8 r. old daughter screaming for me not to go!!This broke my heart,and I asked for more time,and the next thing ii remember is waking up in the e.r...
Jan 10, 2012
Bob Naples
All three of my kids were with me when I had my nde.It was my oldest son,Chris,who called 911,and if I had been alone,I would have died.After spending several years in a haunted house,I have never had any doubts about the afterlife.However,I did have doubts about where we would spend eternity.Thanks to the nde,I have no fear death,and I'm looking forward to the homecoming party that awaits all of us at the end of this long journey!
Jan 11, 2012
Bob Naples
Yes,there is a place where the spirit goes immediately upon passing over.If you would like to know more details,please go to the website of Victor Zammitt.He has a free e-book which goes into tremendous detail of the afterlife experience,and I'll think this will really help to give you comfort!!Be prepared,because what you are about to read may be the TOTAL opposite of what you've been taught to believe!:)
Keep me posted!
Jan 11, 2012
Storyas Fawnfeather
Hi Sandra. Thank you for inviting me as a friend. I hope you are feeling ok today. I don't even want to say good, because I doubt any of us feel good. But, I hope you feel ok. Do you have a pet? I got a dog after my dad died. Actually, i think my dad sent me the dog due to after death experiences i had (have you seen that part of this website yet?), but I'll tell you that story later. I just got home and I'm too tired to tell it now. But, I have a dog. This morning I took my dog to the office with me. On the way, I ran out of gas cuz I'm so out of it lately I forget little things like that. Well, Elbert - my dog who is named after my dad; my dad's name was Estil Elbert - was in the car with me. While I waited for AAA, he climbed up on me and just put his face in mine and we rubbed our foreheads together, and it made me feel a little less depressed and made me feel connected to something (I rarely feel connected any more). It was like he can sense how bad I feel, and he was trying to get through. It helped a little.
Apr 19, 2012