Dear Melissa,  I am so very sorry to see you go through the exact pain like all of us who have lost a child.  I know how raw it feels at this time since it was only a week ago.  This is a nightmare that we never wake up from.  I lost my daughter on the 4th Nov. 2010 because of a careless driver and the anger keeps building up day by day because he has not reached out to us and has shown no remorse or compassion unto now.  His trial will be at the end of this year and in the meantime he is allowed to walk free and enjoy his life and his family.  The emotional stress and wound is tremendous not to mention the pain and agony of not seeing or hearing from her at all in this world anymore.  Melissa you just have to pray for peace and courage and strength.  That is the only thing that helps me now.  And keep on talking about your child don't ever let anyone tell you to get over it.  May God be with you always. Take care.