Trudy F. Evans

Female

Ventura, CA

United States

Profile Information:

About Me:
Female who really enjoys life but occasionally these feelings hit me and it immobilizes me or I get sick. On those occasions it would be good to have someone who understands those feelings to chat with.
About my Loss:
I lost my 27 yr. old son by suicide. My other son, 35 yrs. was murdered. My husband died of a heart attack at 76 yrs. Had to put my dog down last month. My heart aches when I go by the anniversary of their death's and their birthdays. The first week of Feb. is the anniversary of my two sons. My heart is aching. Nothing seems to help.
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Comment Wall:

  • Gail Richardson

    Thank You Note

    Jan 28, 2010

  • Diana, Grief Recovery Coach

    Thanks for adding me as a friend. Sending you virtual (((((hugs))))) ~ Diana

    Jan 28, 2010

  • Trudy F. Evans

    Thanks for being my friend, Diana. It's good to be here. ((((HUGS))))

    Jan 28, 2010

  • Lou LaGrand, Ph.D.

    Trudy: On those difficult days be sure to plan in advance each hour of the day as to what you will do. Find a best friend who understands what is happening and will listen to whatever you have to say. Celebrate the lives of your loved ones in a way that is appropriate for you (light a candle, display a certain picture, play a certain song, visit a special place, go to church, etc.). Try not to isolate yourself. Lou

    Jan 28, 2010