pat martin

Female

Smicksburg, PA

United States

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About Me:
I am a widow of 7 years who has lost so many people recently - people are either rude about it or keep pointing it out to me as if I wouldn't know. The 2 losses that hurt the most were sudden my husband seven years ago in a farm accident and now my daughter in a car accident
About my Loss:
I lost my 27 year old daughter in a traffice accident 3 weeks ago In the space of 1 year I lost one of my best friends, my mother, my mother in law, my brother, my sister-in-law, but this last is almost more than I can understand, it hurts so much. She was a wonderful person and we were extremely close in our relationship

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  • Laura Villarreal

    Pat, there are no words to convey my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your daughter...my only child, my 33 year old daughter, died as the result of a 4 wheeler accident on May 25, 2009. Please know you are not alone although I know it feels that way...there are so many of us here grieving the loss of our children. Finding this website was a Godsend for me; I hope it will be for you too. I have found there are no guidelines to grieving, we all grieve in our own way and in our own time. Most importantly take care of yourself and allow yourself to grieve. Come back as often as you need to share, vent, etc. we have all done it and I for one continue to do so.
    Sincerely,
    Laura

    Jan 28, 2010