Thank you Kim and I am so sorry for your loss of your lovely son .. how are we suppose to get up in a morning and try to take steps forward .. everyone seems to be coping apart from me .. I bottle everything up inside thinking it's a nightmare and it's not true ...xxx

Dear Tarcey

I am so sorry for your loss. It is awful to have to welcome someone new to this site but I hope you can find support and hope here.

I lost my son 3 years ago on Dec.1 in a car accident also. He was 17 and a passenger in the car.

Right wow I know your pain is so raw you wonder how you will ever survive. You just do, day by day, minute by minute. I get by because I believe my son's spirit lives on and is doing amazing things and that one day we will be together in that form. For now I talk to him all the time and ask for guidance. It is so hard to live without them. Love and prayers to you.

Hi connie sorry for your terrible loss ,I just want to be with him he was the driver coming home from a works do with my daughter in law,he was a hard worker lived for his 4 children who I was babysitting at the time .. so every parents nightmare the police knock on the door .. that minute half of me died .. The hardest thing I have had to do was to tell their children daddy was a star and didn't know whether mummy would make it either .. she was on a life support machine .. The other car involved had come the from the other side of a dual carriageway over the central resivation head on .. and hit them .. xxx