Don Smith
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About Me:
67 years old..Florida Resident..just lost wife of 38 years to cancer
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Wife was 7 years younger than me, married for 38 years, was beautiful, smart, loving mother and wife - Met in Miami - was very successful businesswoman w/ extraordinary people skills - very athletic - loved to ski, swim, and bike died of complications of sarcoma -

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My beautiful wife is gone

I can't believe she is really gone...that this just isn't true...that I'll never see my girl ever again...I loved her so much..for all my life it was "us"...We had 2 wonderful boys that I know miss their mom terribly ...She loved them with all her heart ... I find myself crying every day...me..who everyone considers a strong guy..crying when I see a dress hanging in the closet she''ll never wear again..a bike in the garage that she loved to ride..never again...pictures of us skiing,…

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Posted on October 23, 2012 at 10:08pm — 1 Comment

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At 8:28am on October 24, 2012, Brenda Ann said…

Dear Don,

I am 61 and my husband and I have been married 42 years. We just lost my husband's brother to pancreatic cancer and I truly believe that cancer is evil. What it does to the person is terrible and the horrible pain it leaves in its wake is indescribable. Please be comforted that God is not the cause of death or sickness. Sickness is the result of Satan's rebellion and our first parents decision to disobey God's clear law prohibiting the eating fruit from one tree that God kept for himself. Satan made it look like God was withholding something good from them so they chose self rule. However, self rule has proven disastrous.

(Ecclesiastes 8:9) "man has dominated man to his injury."

(Romans 5:12) "That is why, just as through one man sin entered into the world and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men because they had all sinned."

(Romans 5:19-21) “For just as through the disobedience of the one man many were constituted sinners, likewise also through the obedience of the one [person] many will be constituted righteous. 20 Now the Law came in beside in order that trespassing might abound. But where sin abounded, undeserved kindness abounded still more. 21 To what end? That, just as sin ruled as king with death, likewise also undeserved kindness might rule as king through righteousness with everlasting life in view through Jesus Christ our Lord.”

But this still leaves many questions one of which is “Why has God allowed suffering”? I do not want to impose, but if you would like some comfort from the scriptures I would be very happy to help.

God cares deeply for each of us as shown by Isaiah 41:10, which says, “Do not be afraid, for I am with you. Do not gaze about, for I am your God. I will fortify you. I will really help you. I will really keep fast hold of you with my right hand of righteousness.’

Hope this has helped a little.

Brenda

Mawmaw1591@gmail.com

 
 
 

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