How come?

I was just wondering if anyone else does this...
I haven't cried much since my Dad has passed Aug.11th,2011.. When me and my mother and my other siblings talk about him I don't tend to cry but when someone else talks about him I can't stop the water works??

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Permalink Reply by anna l. on August 24, 2011 at 1:52am
Tracie, sorry for your loss.  I do do the same thing sometimes.  I think it is because when someone else brings up my husband it still shocks my brain and I end up crying.  When I say something about Tom I know it is coming out my mouth and can cecide if I am able to do that right then or not.  Having said that, I still find myself saying something, or starting to say something without thinking about it and that REALLY starts the tears. 
Permalink Reply by Tracie Jane Knipp on August 27, 2011 at 10:32pm

I guess when I say it, its okay that I still don't want to believe it and when I hear someone else say it, it makes it official!

 

Permalink Reply by Tim on August 28, 2011 at 7:45pm

My wife died about two weeks ago,everytime I talk to my mother inlaw,she starts tears it is very sad,I try to be strong,

  I started going to hospice meeting,it is not have to be about cancer,it is just a place to go to talk to someone,and there is group meetings.

Permalink Reply by Tracie Jane Knipp on August 29, 2011 at 12:17pm

Tim I am so sorry to hear about your wife! I might have to look into the hospice meetings.. Thank you!

 

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