My Husband has been gone for 4 years, when I go home to visit family they seem to care less about how I am feeling, not one single person asks how I am doing. They think I am just fine, little do they how much I am still suffering with losing my wonderful Julian. I hate going each year, all I am is their gardener, babysitter, and house maid. I am fed up with this. It will be my last year visiting. I live in Florida and the family is in Michigan.   

Views: 120

Attachments:

Reply to This

Replies to This Discussion

If I were you I would change plans and go somewhere that you and he loved to be together. You are not obligated to do anything you not choose to do. I am finding inner peace doing this. No need to "put on airs".

Just be as peaceful as you can be and avoid the drama.

Jean,

Thanks for your reply, I made the commitment for this year, but it will be my last one. Again, thanks for your thoughts on this.

Linda

RSS

Latest Activity

Louis updated their profile
Nov 24
Louis is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Nov 20
Marisol Delgado is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Nov 13
Marcus Delgado updated their profile
Nov 11
Marcus Delgado posted a discussion

My mom died 4 months ago

My mom had pulmonary fibrosis. She was sick for a few years. It was funny how when my grandmother smoked, my mom would always say-I’m gonna die from second hand smoke. My mom never smoked. She died from lung disease. Ironic.I was fine at the funeral. Planning. Talking to everyone. I thought u handled it great. Now 4 months later, I’m a mess. Some days I’m perfectly fine, but others I can’t walk down the street without crying. I keep thinking that I haven’t talked to her in a while & I…See More
Nov 11
Milan updated their profile
Oct 30
Milan is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Oct 29
J’Lyn Wilson posted a photo

IMG_3163

My dad was the best human I’ve ever known.
Oct 27

© 2025   Created by Ninja.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service