how do I live without my sister

My sister was everything to me even though I was her brother she was the emotionally grown up one.she was the one who taught me social skills and gave me strength. I lost her to a dengue fever..I feel so guilty about it she was misdiagnosed by some moron doctor.as malaria so she got those med but when we got to know that it was dengue it was too late.I saw her dying I touched her fingers at the time of her death.it was cold I was so much in shock.I am one month into my grief right now.I am always confused.right now I am studying.I can't concentrate.I can't look at my mom and dad it makes me cry.even though people say you're a boy be strong I don't know how I can't live without my sister..did anyone go through this kind of thing if so how do I live and move on..

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Permalink Reply by Cornelius Patrick on October 30, 2015 at 7:57pm

I lost my little brother the day after Christmas last year, I still have some very difficult days.  For three months after he died I wasn't able to do much concentrating, I slowly was able to pull my focus off my loss.  While everyone grieves differently I recommend that you allow yourself to feel your emotions, cry if you have to, scream if you have to, talk to family and friends if you can.  It has gotten better for me, sometimes not though, be very patient with yourself and others.

Permalink Reply by ys jeevan reddy on October 30, 2015 at 11:23pm

so sorry about your loss it hurts so much isnt it. i am still in my first month of loss..nothing has changed yet.

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