Don't know what to say really..I have never been part of any forums..but I feel so helpless now..I lost my mom on dec 31st, 2014.. I was in the USA and my brother called me. That phone call still haunts me when he said, our mother is gone. I shared a very different bond with her. It wasn't just a mother daughter bond..I used to dream about good things for my mother. she had seen so many struggles in her life and came out of it as a stronger person I used to dream happiness for her. In a few months my brother and his wife will have a baby but my mom won't be here to see her first grand child. She was supposed to come see me in august and see my 1st house. All these incomplete things kill me. Things which could have been but will not happen any more. I can write on and on but just wanted to reach out to everyone to say that I understand your loss and I am really sorry.

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Hello, thank you for your concern and wishes. I also feel the same like you. I feel so happy when I think of her. Sometimes I wonder that I and back to my normal life so soon. I would have thought that my life
Is over..but I think it's her strength that let's me live every day as normal as I can. I do get filled with that emptiness and it's terrible.The very feeling that I won't be able to hear her or touch her anymore is devastating. My good wishes with you :)

I am so sorry for your loss! I'm sure your mother will see her grandchild, see the wonderful things that happen in your life, and be a part of your life until you are reunited. However, I get what you are saying. I lost my mother in October, a week before my youngest child's 2nd birthday. My little Abby will not remember her grandmother. How do I explain to her what an amazing person her grandmother was?

You have my sympathy and empathy.

Hello Kerry, thank you for your wishes. I really appreciate your time and concern. Life is getting back to normal and I am surprised and intrigued at how adaptable we humans are.Also teaches me a very important lesson that death is just a phase and it will be gone soon. I no more fear death. I get into these mood swings when I am normal most of the time and suddenly my eyes start watering. It's like my heart is thinking about her all the time and cannot control when it feels that she is really gone.
But I do feel her around me all the time in the true sense. I really hope and think that there is life beyond death and all the people who we really love always stay connected to us. I just want her to be happy wherever she is!
My good wishes to you and regards to your family.

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