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I lost my boyfriend of two years unexpectedly on 9-18-09 at the age of 25. He was my rock and father of my daughter. We lived together with my two sons from a previous relationship. He was the only daddy that they have ever known. He broke up with me three weeks before his passing but we continued to live together. On the day that he passed, he threw me out of the house. I was in the process of leaving with my parents when he collapsed in the front yard. Due to these circumstances his family cleaned out our house and are treating my boys and i like crap. The only reason they are still talking to me is because of our baby girl. I feel very alone in my grief and that they don't realize how bad that i am hurting and how alone i feel.
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Permalink Reply by Katherine Ellis on
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I am sorry to hear about your loss. I hate the way his family is treating you. Unfortunately that's usually what happens when your not married. Plus they knew you had broken up with him. I'm not excusing them in any way. Your loss is so new yet. Our daughter died 9 yrs ago so I can tell you that in time the pain will become softer. It will never go away but it will get easier to handle. You have to take care of yourself, you have 3 beautiful children that need you. Have you thought about counciling? Or getting on some medication? I do both and it helps some. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless you
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Permalink Reply by Elizabeth Gannett on
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Thank you. I have thought about counseling. I am a full time college student as well and there is a free center on campus. I don't know if i am ready to share what i am feeling. I flip flop between grief for him and anger towards his family. I know there are emotions that i am suppressing and that are slowing coming to the surface.
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Elizabeth, I understand your feelings and I m so sorry for your boyfriend. Death is the law of nature and we are nothing against his power. I know its difficult to deal with this grief. You should go to grief counseling group for deal with it. I hope it will really helpful for you.
You can trying to move on because life is very big. I pray to God for you. You are always in my thoughts. Sympathy Verse
(((((((((HUGS)))))))))))
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