My Birthday is today and i had a melt down!

This is more likey normal to have a melt down on your birthday when you don't have your mom no more, i miss her dearly and its not going to be the same with out her as i know she is with me as she knows i turned 50 , My family is not even me today this really sucks big time, but what do you do live and move on and think of the good memberbies you had with them.. i could see my mom now asking me what i want for my birthday dinner! and she would make it just for us girls and grandchildren, i forgot to say that she had passed away 3 years ago and its still fresh to me and it takes time to heal from the death of the love ones that you love, all i need to say to all of you that i had read your posts are there is support grooups you can join with your church for this and trust me it really helps to have your church family there for you..
i am blessed to have them and this web suite ..God Bless Sharon

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Permalink Reply by Jennifer Blackwood on September 16, 2012 at 11:02am

That's completely understandable, I have a meltdown just thinking about my birthday without her and what I'm going to do. Next month, will be my 'first' birthday without her so I'm dreading it more than anything because that was the only day I was guarenteed with her since she worked long days, most days, as a nurse! And your right, it does take time. I'm going on eight months, and I highly doubt I'll be 'better' in a year, or two. She meant the world to me, and I miss her more than anything in this world! Hope that you are feeling a little better today!!!

Permalink Reply by Jayne on September 22, 2012 at 10:29pm

Hi Sharon, I just read your post. I am grieving every day for the loss of my beautiful mom. she passed away this July and it is do hard to take. I am sorry for your loss too. My mom said to me she cant wait until I turn 50 too and how I will react. I dread that day! I would like to talk to you and we could share. Jayne

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