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Comment by Lisa Townsend on January 9, 2010 at 7:45am

What ever you do dont stop trying to contact your granddaughter. Stop by their house when you know she is there. send her flowers when you know she is home,make sure they are delivered on time, make sure a big card is facing them when they arrive with her name on it. It seems you have built a relationship with her and she wont forget the bond you two have. That is what im trying to do with my grandson incase something like this happens, he will know in his heart how we were when we were together. Dont stop trying, we are wiser, use your wisdom you have earned and out smart her. Its time to get dirty in a real nice way. Oh i could go on and on. I get on a roll. Spend some time thinking, like your daughterinlaws age,what her intrest are, what make her not like you, and reverse yourself and play a game, out smart her. She is the fool not you. I know i might sound crazy, maybe i am. I could not even imagine what i would do if i did not see my grandson, he helps me through everything and he is only three. all she can do is take you to court, but then you also have rights. Get creative, I spend alot of time repenting, the things and thoughts that go through my mind are not good, sometimes i surprise my self and feel like she is making me more like her. That is scary. but i do what i have to do. I smile and kiss ass

Comment by Ganny on January 8, 2010 at 9:49pm

Yes i agree Lisa... I already said once in anger Why would God let her take up space on this earth and take my son who was a good person and a loving Father. I've had to take that back but the hurt can turn to anger really fast. At the funeral home in front of everyone a guy my son worked with had his hands all over her...she didn't have anything to do with me, couldn't and wouldn't look me in the face. It's a disgrace that we have to go through this. I've questioned God already so much about the whole thing. I was angry one day and yelled at him, but I guess he was laughing at me. Like who am I to yell at God. Last night I was ready to climb the walls. I was so nervous and anxious. I can't see my grandchild and it's killing me and in the mean time his wife is telling her things that will turn her against me, I know she is. Although, my grandaughter loves me as much as I love her. But you know how the parent can influence a child, decieve them, scare them. My hands are tied right now and I'm looking for a miracle from God. I need more than one.

Comment by Lisa Townsend on January 8, 2010 at 12:32pm

I feel for you. Oh God how i feel for you. My sons wife has made me feel so terrible. She let me know that my name was not on anything and her name was the only name on everything and i could not do anything. I told her my name was on his birth cert. I do get to see my grandson, but i have to really walk on very thin ice, (God forbid dont piss them off,keep your mouth shut, bite your tounge.) She will make you eat s... My sons wife went straight into a relationship in 2 weeks after his death. If i mention my sons name, it is as if, Michael who? My mother keept me from evil people i guess, because i sure cant deal with her, Sometimes i look at her and see nothing but pure evil. I can even see red in her eyes and it not from crying. After 3 hours of his death it seemed the only thing on her mind was he life insurance. Its bad enough for my son to be gone from me, and then have to put up with someone so evil. I was taken off her myspace also.

Comment by Ganny on January 8, 2010 at 11:34am

And not to mention that my son's wife has deleted me from his facebook and myspace page. Pure evil spewing from her fingertips. I'm trying hard not to let hate get into my heart. I'm praying for her.