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My husband of almost 23 years died suddenly at home after staying in the hospital for 7
days. It was such a shock! I loved my husband with all my heart and we were soul mates.
I miss cooking his favorite meals, dinning out together, going to the movies, vacationing
together, going to the state fair in Perry, Georgia every year since 1998. We decided that we
would have a renewal of our wedding vows for our 20th wedding anniversary. We did that in
Ocho Rios, Jamaica in 2010. He never forgot special holidays and gave me cards and flowers
on each occasion. He was a romantic. I am at a lost without him. I feel that I will never be
completely happy again. I am so unhappy and I have no one that seems to care about what
I am going through. I am home alone and the phone barely rings. The silence in my home
is almost more than I can bear. I am afraid that I might lose my mind. I do not have anyone
such as children or pets that can be of company to me. I sometimes feel like running and
never coming back to the home that my husband and I shared together. My life is consumed with
missing his presence. I know I must go on and in due time the pain will lessen and I will be able to live
a healthy and productive life again. I am totally trusting in God for his strength to help me
weather this storm of grief that has invaded my life. I would not wish this pain and misery upon my
worse enemy.
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Hi Dia,
Along with attending a grief group, I have found that finding grief books that talks on the same subject such as, the lost of a beloved mother. Reading these books has given me some source of comfort. I know your heart is broken and your emotions are running wild. Your mother and my husband want you and I to survive their lost and start remembering the good times we shared with them before they became sick and eventually passed away. Although, I miss my husband, I am relieved that he is not hurting or suffering anymore. Yes, it is hard and I am determined to overcome and be victorious in my journey of grief. May God heal your heartache and suffering in the lost of your beloved mother. Please remember that your mother loved you, but God loves you more.
Sarah
Hi Dia,
I am hoping that today is a better day for you on your journey of grief. I have joined a weekly grief group that meets for 2 hours every Sunday. I attended the meeting on Sunday and found it to help me greatly. The group are people that has had the experience of loss in their lives. Grief is yours and mine house guest and we must find a way to evict this unwanted house guest. Oh! the name of the grief group is Grief Share.org. May God strengthen you and heal your broken heart.
Sarah
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