I really don't know how much more I can take. Everything you said your grown kids would try to pull they are. Why do they act like they care so much about you now that you are gone yet you never heard from them when you were sick!! I really wish you would have given them a copy of the will before, but then again you were not suppose to leave me!!! God why did you have to take him from me. He was just 51 and we still had so much more we wanted to do! Between missing you so much and all the drama there are days I wish could just join you. I really don't know how much more I can take!!!!!!!!!!!
 

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Comment by Lisa on July 3, 2012 at 7:09pm

Hi Debbie

My Mom  passed away on January 18th and I just wanted to say that even you lost a spouse and I lost a parent, I can sympathize with what you are going through. Since Mom died my creep of a Dad ( who never cared about Mom) has treated me like dirt at every opportunity. Right now I am only working part-time and don't have the money to take my own place so the he feels he has the upper hand.

It galls me that God took my wonderful loving mother away and left this piece of garbage alive! I know the priests at my church (I'm Catholic) would be horrified to hear me say this, but I wish with every fiber of my being that Dad was the one who was dead!

I too feel like I am standing on a ledge many days...Write to me to anytime.  I will pray for you!

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