I found this web site hoping there would be somebody going through the same thing or close to it but do young people never lose spouses by freak accidents? i mean it makes me feel like im for some reason being punished i know thats not true but still...they had a 8 week grief seminar in my town and i thought great people i can talk to but i was the only one under the age of 40 there! not that i want other young women and men go through the same thing ugh i dont know forgive me if your reading this and your ticked off that wasnt my intention at all i just needed to vent i guess please just be in prayer for me to figure all this out.

 

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Comment by marcye jackson on March 16, 2011 at 10:34am
thank you sean i think we could all use prayers, ill be praying for you also. in time there comes healing this ive come to learn.
Comment by Sean Casey on March 14, 2011 at 6:17pm

No apology needed.  I've been lucky enough to have some people understand what I'm going through, and they're always easier to talk to.  Others mean well, but....yeah.  Just not the same.  I can't say I relate exactly, as my wife committed suicide almost 6 weeks ago.  Not quite the same as a freak accident.  I don't feel like I'm being punished by God/The Universe, but I've had to wonder what she was thinking at the end.  No note to explain anything....just gone.

 

I'm happy to pray for you.  Lord knows we all could use it.

Comment by marcye jackson on March 11, 2011 at 10:44pm

 thank you so much that was much needed i hope i didnt make anybody upset i jus like you said needed to vent thank you again for your understanding

Comment by coachlouise on March 11, 2011 at 4:34am
It is hard to feel understood, because every loss is different, ages, relationships, situations. However there are many feelings, that we all have that are similar. Why me, why this happened, is a question we all carry. Yet if you really dive deep into examine it from all directions, there comes an understanding. Sudden death, takes time to process. Keep writing, it is a safe way to vent. We all understand. I send you compassion.

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