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Comment by Dj French on February 11, 2009 at 1:48pm

I will try to share some of these experiences if others want? The first yr or so everyone was receiving signs but me? This confused and hurt me but then I realized the grief was too deep for me to watch for these signs. I was in a pit too black to recognize anything. I truly went to bed for several yrs and prayed to die. I dont think there is any grief as deep as the loss of a child. I have lost my dad, all my siblings, grandparents, hubby but none threw me in this pit like the loss of my son. I felt like nobody on earth knew how I felt. I didnt know anything about a computer but I knew that I needed a lifeline to the putside world as I was closing down. So I bought a dinosaur totally got "took" on the 1st puter cause I knew nothing. I taught myself everything as I didnt have anyone to teach me.I was totally overwhelmed as I began to surf thru the memorial sites and read the pain and hurt in each one and read things that made me realize I wasnt "nuts" just another grieved mom of which there were so many? I began to sign gbs and reach out to these other moms and realized I could give and still receive inspiration to other moms. I made a promise to Shane that I would teach myself how to make him a memorial site and would learn to make graphic gifts for other moms. All of his sites are filled with literally blood, sweat, and so many tears. On his first site, sometimes it took days just to type one of the poems he had written. I would type a couple of lines and have a complete breakdown and have to go to bed for the rest of the day. I always considered myself a "strong" person and still do because any mom who survives the loss of her child is truly in the strongest sense of the word A "Survivor" I try to help any mom walk down this grief road and let her know its easier to walk beside another mom than alone. hugs. Dj

Comment by Diana, Grief Recovery Coach on February 11, 2009 at 12:10pm

DJ,

Thanks for sharing. It is definitely comforting.

Diana

Comment by Dj French on February 11, 2009 at 10:28am

I have experienced most if these. My son Shawn was contacted by phone by my angel son Shane. I was there and witnessed this communication. At the time it was more than I could mntally handle as it was in the first few months after he was killed.A photo vision of him showed up in pics taken at the funeral service. Shane was with my mom during her open heart bypass, I feel him and the other angels that I write poetry for give me the words to the poems because sometimes I write and nothing I intended to write makes it thru? I have had some signs fefinitely. Hugs, Dj

Comment by Diana, Grief Recovery Coach on February 11, 2009 at 8:33am

Hi Christine,
The members have just been notified. I wish I could attend. If you feel inspired after the event, feel free to post about it here at Online Grief Support. I would love to hear about it.
Diana

Comment by Christine Duminiak on February 11, 2009 at 8:18am

Hi Diana,

We are having an After-Death Communication Event called (Bridges to Heaven) on March 7, 2009 from 2:30 p.m. to 5:30 p.m. at the Bodhi Tree Bookstore Annex in W. Hollywood, CA. I added it to my events. Or people can read about it at www.christineduminiak.com. Would you please pass the word on to others. This is a rare seminar that we are flying out to CA for. Thank you and God bless you.

Comment by Diana, Grief Recovery Coach on February 11, 2009 at 7:15am

I, personally, have experienced objects, visions,telepathic thoughts, godincidences,butterfly, dragonfly, and gifts. Anyone else have any experiences?