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Comment by Rhona on December 1, 2013 at 4:12pm

It is very difficult to deal with the loss of one loved one Jo...my heart goes out to you...and you are so right...baby steps...and yes a breath at a time...and all we can do to honour them by doing our best each day too.

Comment by dream moon JO B on December 1, 2013 at 3:57pm

i try 2 rhona its all we can do its lk baby steps my mum darnet lk it death notise but wn she doses itss allwayz s 1 she nose or its famly we hav not sean 4 a few yrs or mre or so on its allwayz on my dads siee coz his famly is big 

sad thng is i only sea most of thm it funrells or wn thy fone latly its allwayz bean bad news but famly closee by ty hav all nealy past on tht horbell wrd i no my mum wnt 2 sea 1 or 2 of thm but i cud not do it coz of ths gobia lk u saed 1 breathh at a tim

Comment by Rhona on December 1, 2013 at 2:46pm

JO B...that is hard...I am so sorry...and I can understand emotions running high...and not being understood can lead to such misunderstandings especially with so much so soon...and of course it will affect you greatly and will be too much to come to terms with at once...just take a breath at a time...you are doing better than you think.

Comment by dream moon JO B on November 29, 2013 at 4:50pm

its ok rhona afterr my dad diedd i dnt exspexy 2 othrs pass aftr him wot mde it hrd a lot of thm died on sme ward he did 

i no t day befre he died i nealy git my slf arestedd nealy a crimlme record coz i compland 2 mush coz th nurse wear dong nothng but gopsng bena rasit 2 nurse it wear getng thr handss dirty 

it least if my cuzen it is a nurse it gers her habds dirty   i wudnt fewela as bad ths 

aftr my dad died it lft me with pstd a fobia of hosptles wear i cnt even set ft in 

it least in uk e hav thm wk inn plases wen i hrt my leg i wentt 2 thr coz i cud not fase tht plase it lft my tramtised it did not jst me my surgatee uncless dorter it did it 2 her 2 coz he diedo sme ward lst yr evn othr famly mebers wish for me is 2 painfil 2 speak abot it mde iot wors coz i cud nto go 2 sea thm coz of ths fobia 

jo

ps ths fobia has not jst torchrd me u will hear storys on hear th sme thng has hapend 2 a lot of pele

Comment by Rhona on November 29, 2013 at 5:05am

Jo...thank you for sharing with me, and I am so sorry about you losing your dad.

I don't think we ever stop hurting over losing a loved one...we just learn to manage it better...and through time there comes acceptance of the change this loss has brought to our lives as it is the only way we can cope with the void they leave when they go.

Please do be comforted by what you are aware of or see...and many people do not understand such sightings as they are afraid of what they do not understand.   I know you have seen your dad, and these things are happening as this is how they communicate with us, and it takes a great effort for them to do so...as they have to lower their vibration to affect ours.

Just know that he is around you and your Mum as he does not want you hurting, and is trying to reassure you that he is safely home now, and he wants you and your Mum to continue to feel your lives to the full as this is really the best way of honouring those who pass on.

I hope this has helped a little...our soul always recognises the truth as it resonates with us...as though we have always known it yet we just needed to hear it too.

Comment by dream moon JO B on November 28, 2013 at 3:47pm

i lost my dad lst yr its lft me my mum so sad tht he haz gon i still thng he is abot coz he wz alwayz sush a joker wen he wz alivee coz he wud hid thngs i thnk he is still dong it coz thngs disaper for a few dayss thn trn up in a difrnt plase we hav put thm 

sm tms i go in 2 a room in house i feal lk i can sea him sitng thr ot standing it window i do iv tryd 2 tell ple but thng im makng up or seang thngs its not thr 

all i get tld my imaging is 2 over active mamby it is 

all i no it will never stop hrtng

jo