Today is 6 months since Candance was found murdered in her home.

I pray everyday for answers...........I pray everyday that the forensics reports come back.  I pray for the strength to make it another day........

I have had several conversations with the police dept............they fight me on everything...........almost as if they dont want to solve her murder.

I plan on starting a letter writing campaign to the Gov. of Texas.....maybe he can try and fix the mess at the forensics lab............we should not have to wait this long to get lab tests back!!!! 

Somedays I just want to scream!!!!  Where is there any justice for Candance?  Why are families put though this hell???? 

When I call the police dept to get an update...........my calls are returned MAYBE 2 weeks after I call...........sometimes they aren't returned.  I know there was alot of evidence taken from her home....

I dont feel like any one cares!!! 

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Comment by Amanda Ab on January 12, 2012 at 6:22pm

Hi Terrie. I had send you a message.

Big hug to you and your family. I would like to tell you how strong of a mother you are. And we are all so proud of you for not giving up. And know that Candance is also proud of you and asking for you not to give up. Please keep trying, and see who gets tired first. Remember that I completely understand you and your frustration. There is so much agone and frustration we as murder victim families go through along with our grief. All we want is our day in Court and Justice to be served on those who are held responsible for taking away our loved ones. They shall be punished and at least, at least loose their freedom vs. all that we have lost.

We feel that all doors shut closed with no answers. And we seem to hit dead ends with no answers, no support from anyone else. It is just so unfair on how this justice system seem to work. Unforturnately, they are many employers who hold county jobs who really are so not professional to help the public. Not even returning a phone call? that just upsets me.

Please dont hesitate to contact me if you need any of my support,

Amanda

Comment by Mary Rowan - Harless on January 12, 2012 at 5:20pm

Terrie, My thoughts are with you.Your strength and love as a mother and the strength of Candance will guide you and your family thru this hell. My thoughts and prayers are with you. 

Mary 

Comment by Brenda Ann on January 11, 2012 at 9:52pm

I care, but I am also unable to help with the lab results.  I have read the stories from many people who have made the same comments about the cold uncaring time it takes to get action.  Use this time to remember every smell, touch and word of her's...  Horribly we live in a world that contains some people who are truly from their father the Devil, just like Jesus said.  (John 8:44)"YOU are from YOUR father the Devil, and YOU wish to do the desires of YOUR father."  Wicked people will not be here forever - Psalms 37:9 says, "For evildoers themselves will be cut off"

 

I hope that this will bring you a little comfort.

Brenda

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