MIchael A Ballard's Blog (65)

Courage

I saw a young girl wearing a shirt today, and it was lime green with white print spelling the word COURAGE.



That word is very much stuck in my head!

My wife was not at all afraid of death.  Neither was my mother.  



I guess, when you're not afraid of death, there has to be a lot of courage there within you for staying alive!



Courage (also bravery, fortitude, or intrepidity) is the ability to confront fear, pain, danger, uncertainty, or…

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Added by MIchael A Ballard on August 9, 2011 at 2:53pm — No Comments

We are greater than grief... we will all get through it just as sure as the sun rises every new day..

Grief is a tidal wave that over takes you, 

smashes down upon you with unimaginable force, 

sweeps you up into its darkness, 

where you tumble and crash against unidentifiable surfaces, …

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Added by MIchael A Ballard on August 9, 2011 at 1:57am — No Comments

Healing

Let's all begin to heal today!

 

Michael

 

Added by MIchael A Ballard on August 8, 2011 at 8:39pm — 3 Comments

Good News! Those whom we think we lost are still here, right here with us!

It's been 4 months since my wife Jami passed away, and 7 months since my mother passed.

I have written a lot about grief, how to conquer it, cope with it.  What I have learned is that grief is a struggle, an

overbearing and overwhelming struggle when I stay in its path by thinking of sad thoughts, sad feelings of missing whom I have lost.  Feeling guilty that I may have been able to fix my wife and possibly been more understanding of my mother. 

In coming to terms with…

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Added by MIchael A Ballard on August 8, 2011 at 4:00pm — 3 Comments

Good Grief

Why does grief have to be so traumatizing anyway?  

Maybe there is such a thing as  'Good Grief'!

 

Added by MIchael A Ballard on July 31, 2011 at 12:39am — No Comments

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It was not supposed to be like this

In 2014 I met the most amazing man ever. We were both in our very early 20s and were looking for different things at the time. We ceased communication for roughly 6 months. During which time, he completed basic training and joined the Air Force. By the time we reconnected he was already at his first duty station.. 8 hours away.We decided we wanted to continue our relationship and proceeded to cultivate a deeply emotional connection. Regular calls and video chats, visits while he was home on…See More
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