You are so much more valuable and special than you realize. Stop comparing yourself to people who are not worth your admiration and attention. Grief can lower our expectations in life. Loss can spiral us into confusion, pity and shame. We see others as better than us. It is time to stop this unhealthy relationship with ourselves and see us for who we truly are.

Father God~We come to you today~we have burdens,we have loses,we need your healing hands,,Father you know our issues..Touch our lives Father,ease our load,ease our hearts,heal our bodies...and Father thank you for your many mercies of forgiveness...thank you also Father for the Blessing you give us and show us Daily....Teach us to allow your will into our lives...guide our hearts to love as you love us...in your son Jesus Name we Pray~~~~Amen and Amen

There are huge differences between giving up and moving on. Moving on doesn't mean giving up, but rather accepting that there are some things that cannot be. Letting go and moving on can mean that you're making a choice to be happy rather than hurt. It doesn't mean that you're giving up. For few love can last a lifetime, but for many not knowing when to let go can hold them back forever.-SQ

Most upset is derived from our unwillingness to accept or release something. Like holding water, the tighter we grasp the less we have. 



Often the intense energy we expend clinging to something is the single greatest obstacle to our good. We greatly improve our lives and results by letting it go. 



Letting go does not mean giving up. It means that we take our frenetic, chaotic energy out of the picture and release our…

When we lose those we love,

You must understand

That it takes time

To learn to feel again –

For nothing

Can touch the heart

Which is frozen with grief.

~   Unknown

When we lose those we love,

You must understand

That it takes time

To learn to feel again –

For nothing

Can touch the heart

Which is frozen with grief.

~   Unknown

We must always remember that every person’s situation is different, and every person’s unique experience and personality plays a role in their grief.

There’s no time limit for “getting over it,” and “moving on.” I’m still amazed at how prevalent this view is in society, and also how limiting and damaging it is for those who need to mourn in order to heal and create a new life out of their experience of loss.

To quote from Mary Oliver’s “The Uses of Sorrow,” as I’ve done before…

Hi my name is Julie and I lost my soulmate on in October of 2010. Looking for others to help me understand this terrible loss. The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18

Hope For The Broken Hearted 

Many people know the pain of watching people disappear from their lives when they are grieving, facing a long term illness, when they have a special needs child or when they deal with any sort of problem that needs more than a quick fix. If that's your experience, then make sure that you are there for others, since you know…

“Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have…

Grief and pain are the price we humans have to pay for the love and total committent we have for another person. The more we love, the more we are hurt when we lose the object of our love. But if we are honest with ourselves, would we have it any other way..... Jason, your in my thoughts and I pray your at peace.

Grief and pain are the price we humans have to pay for the love and total committent we have for another person. The more we love, the more we are hurt when we lose the object of our love. But if we are honest with ourselves, would we have it any other way..... Jason, your in my thoughts and I pray your at peace.

There is no difficulty that enough love will not conquer;

no disease that enough love will not heal;

no door that enough love will not open;

no gulf that enough love will not bridge;

no wall that enough love will not throw down;

no sin that enough love will not redeem...

It makes no difference how deeply seated may be the trouble;

how hopeless the outlook; how muddled the tangle; how great the mistake.

A sufficient realization of love will…