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I just want to be sad.
I don't really have any one to tell my thoughts to. They will think I was crazy if I did. Or they say something in good intentions, that really hurts my feelings. Anyone else going thru this?
Started Jul 6, 2019
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I just want to be sad.
I don't really have any one to tell my thoughts to. They will think I was crazy if I did. Or they say something in good intentions, that really hurts my feelings. Anyone else going thru this?
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- About Me:
- Middle aged mom of grown kids. I am your average person I guess.
- About my Loss:
- My mom died at 92. My sister took over mom's care. Would not let he help or include me in any way.
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"its so hard xmas coz our loved 1s no longer with us so sorry on your loss "
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My daughter did MAID last Tuesday and I've been holding up okay.But just now the Christmas convoy (trucks all lit up that do an organized drive through our small town) went by and suddenly I just started crying, thinking how my girl won't be around to have these small moments. And not that she would have - she wasn't a huge Christmas or celebration person. So I don't know why I'm sitting here crying about it.Oh this is going to hurt a lot :-(See More
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