Lilliana
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I am mom of two beautiful children. I work and go to school full time and I am trying to balance everything as best as I can.
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I lost my boyfriend of 8 years to lung cancer. Our little girl was not even two when he passed away. It's been four months and I still can't get over how much I miss him.

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I lost him to cancer outside of the US

He died on May 29th of this year in Cuba, I was able to be by his side until his last day.

Yesterday I was suspended with pay from work as a result for a hearing I had in June of this year when I came back from Cuba after being a month out there.

I brought back all the proof they needed like a death certificate, plane ticket stubs, emails, but it looks like it wasn't enough and now I'm facing a future without a job. It seemed so ironic that they would send me home on what would…

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Posted on October 7, 2014 at 6:20pm — 1 Comment

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At 7:35am on November 8, 2014, Brenda Ann said…

Lilliana,

     I am so sorry to hear how you have lost the father of your children. Yet I am glad you found this support group because, as you mentioned it is good to be able to talk to others who have experienced losses that greatly affect their lives.

When Someone You Love Dies is a brochure that has greatly helped my family and if you follow the link, you will see what I mean. I especially liked the comment it makes in the chapter How Can I Live With My Grief? about finding a good friend that will listen to you when you need to talk. Just know that I will listen with a truly sympathetic heart.

Brenda

 
 
 

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