Jade
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I lost my mam in November 2014 to Cancer. I am 23, oldest of 3 girls and I'm struggling as I feel I need to support my sisters and my dad. I am the only one with a stable job and income and I'm starting to crumble. My boyfriend feels like he can't support me anymore.

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Time never gets any easier as it passes and still 5 months later I find myself struggling to get out of bed for work. My partner has been trying hard to support me and finds ithard because I'm snappy and moody. However, Monday he lost his gran he was very close to. His way of dealing with grief is to be alone. He won't talk to me and won't spend time with me but wants to spend time with his friends. I feel so pushed out I can't deal with it. I feel bad because I don't know how to support him… Continue

Posted on April 23, 2015 at 4:40pm

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At 8:04pm on May 13, 2015, Amy said…
Jade I get it. It's like starting over but as an adult and how do you do that?? I'm 33 and have no idea who I am anymore. I took care of my mom for 5 years when she was sick and it's like I don't even know what I like anymore let alone who I am. It's so hard but we can get through it.
At 5:20pm on May 13, 2015, Cornelius Patrick said…

Jade, be patient with yourself, you should allow yourself to grieve in your own way.  Love your family, friends, and most of all yourself.

At 3:38am on May 10, 2015, Jade said…
I feel like I can't get back to my normal self. My boyfriend is struggling to cope with my mood swings and need for constant attention. I don't do it on purpose. I just can't seem to be 'me' again.
 
 
 

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