Cecilia
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  • Lockport, NY
  • United States
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Cecilia and Kelly are now friends
Mar 11, 2022
Kelly replied to Cecilia's discussion My married lover in the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
"You poor thing. I remember it well and still feel it often. It’s a tidal wave. I see mine coming at me now when it comes. But it is no longer constant. There is nothing anyone can say or do to ease your pain. But we can listen and sit in it…"
Mar 10, 2022
Cecilia replied to Cecilia's discussion My married lover in the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
"Thank you, Kelly. I had to put away anything he's ever given me. I can't look at them without crying. I have to force myself to eat & sleep...and sometimes breathe. Emptiness surrounds me. I've always been an intuitive, sensitive,…"
Mar 9, 2022
Kelly replied to Cecilia's discussion My married lover in the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
"It is overwhelming. You will learn to recognize when it’s coming, delay your reaction until it is an appropriate time for you to let those feelings out, sleep and eat normally, and even have some feeling other than sadness again. You learn to…"
Mar 9, 2022
Cecilia replied to Cecilia's discussion My married lover in the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
"Thank you"
Mar 7, 2022
Jennie replied to Cecilia's discussion My married lover in the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
"Cecila,  I'm so sorry for you. Cherish your memories and may you gain closure in time."
Mar 7, 2022
Cecilia added a discussion to the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
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My married lover

For 6 years I secretly shared a wonderful love with a man who was a beautiful soul. His other life found out about me days before he passed. His family has asked that I not attend the service. I called the funeral home to see if they would arrange some sort of private viewing, but was informed that he'd already been cremated. This grief is overwhelming.
Mar 7, 2022
Cecilia joined Cathy Richardson's group
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Being the Other Woman/Other Man

This is for anyone who has lost their lover to death and you were the other woman/other man in their life. We have to grieve in silence. I can't find any support groups and feel like I'm the only one going through this situationSee More
Mar 7, 2022
Cecilia updated their profile
Mar 7, 2022
Cecilia is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Mar 6, 2022

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About Me:
I'm a paralegal, living in NY but originally from TX.
About my Loss:
My married lover of 6 years died from covid the day after my birthday. His wife found out about me 2 days before he passed. I've been asked to not attend the service. I'm overwhelmed by the emptiness, sadness and anger.

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At 10:04pm on May 12, 2024, Erica Woodward said…

I need to have a word privately,Could you please get back to me on ( mrs.ericaw1@gmail.com)Thanks.

 
 
 

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Speed Weasel commented on Speed Weasel's blog post A Return to GriefShare and a Crisis of Identity
"GriefShare is a church based support group. They do have meetings online, but the usual format is a group of people experiencing a loss getting together weekly to watch videos (13 weeks total) about grief and loss. After the video, we talk about the…"
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Natasha commented on Speed Weasel's blog post A Return to GriefShare and a Crisis of Identity
"is griefshare a website like this?"
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Morgan Sangrouber is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Oct 10
Addie replied to Kali's discussion It was not supposed to be like this in the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
"Kali I’m so so sorry you are going through this. Grief is hard enough, but going through it secretly, all the while having to continue showing up for your kids, is just brutal. Perhaps your friend was careful to hide your conversations behind…"
Sep 26
Kali added a discussion to the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
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It was not supposed to be like this

In 2014 I met the most amazing man ever. We were both in our very early 20s and were looking for different things at the time. We ceased communication for roughly 6 months. During which time, he completed basic training and joined the Air Force. By the time we reconnected he was already at his first duty station.. 8 hours away.We decided we wanted to continue our relationship and proceeded to cultivate a deeply emotional connection. Regular calls and video chats, visits while he was home on…See More
Sep 26

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