Cat H
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About Me:
Im Cat 22, working a job I cant stand and feeling quite alone. The one joy I have is my car but road rage is an issue
About my Loss:
I was just turned 17 and my boyfriend of a year went missing on a night out. Found dead 4 days later. Dodge circumstances and no ending. This was 5 years ago nearly 6 and it still plagues me.

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5 years on from the Loss

I had one week left of college, I was 17 and my boyfriend just turning 20 went to see his birth dad down in another town one Friday night. He didn't want to go that night, wanted to stay at his friends but i said he didn't see his real dad often so to go, he went and never saw him again. He was at a night club, went out for a cigarette even though he had stopped smoking and they found his body electrocuted in a power station 4 days later 12 miles away on the…

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Posted on January 7, 2014 at 10:55am — 1 Comment

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At 10:52am on January 7, 2014, Dolly said…

No knowing does that... in ADDITION to losing him for ANY reason... we lost our youngest son last May... he died suddenly without warning... we don't really know what was the cause.. they said 'cardiac event' but we never were told he had issues with his heart... he was 22 and disabled and couldn't talk to tell us if something hurt... I have fits of rage myself from time to time... not road rage as I hardly ever drive anymore.. just general rage at life I guess...or more directly at DEATH.... sorry for your pain and I pray a better job will find you soon....

 
 
 

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