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Loss my husband on March 8 2014
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My husband was in the middle of working in the yard getting it ready for summer and tilling our garden beds for the veggies, that we grew in raised beds beautiful,,, with walkways in brick between.. We had just had our 55th wedding anniversary on Feb. 24.. this day was March 8,,,, and it will always be Mar. 8, 2014 for me... I died in that experimental homemade airplane crash too.. he had met a man one week before and they became friends only that one night.... on the next Sat, he got a call from him and left to go see his plane... my husband was a pilot so was around planes and even was big into RC flying (remote control) In spite of my begging him to not go and even said, "if you care anything about me you wont' go with him up in that plane. I had told that man that one week before and other family members there too...he thought the plane was safe.... one hour after he left here he was gone,, it crashed in the middle of several of our friends neighborhood... including a couple that was here waiting for him to come have dinner with us... The plane was not safe and had other issues...3 people died in the crash, but I'm the 4th also and dont' want to live without him... I don't have family around me and not many people close I cant' see living like this and always thought I would """go"""" if he died first.
We were always together and did lots of things for the humane shelter together. He was the most talented person you could ever know everyone here in town says that... he could make anything, wood turning, wood carving, metal work, metal lathe turnings. He bought the groceries, I seldom went unless it was with him. Always called to ask what I needed. We hosted a huge Christmas party and started our decorations on Thanksgiving,,,, he make many things for that including lots of the buffet foods... and cooked all durng the party, for our around 75 people... I on't plan on any decorations this year and that alone will be so sad for me, but trying to decorate without him will be torment on top of torment... I pray everyday not too wake p the next morning.. I just don't' want to be here without him...

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At 9:19am on June 24, 2014, kim said…

hi bobby, im so very sorry, I just lost my only child my son  shawn,  the pain is unbearable, I cry all the time, I to pray every night  to take me to him, I just cant go on without my son.  I hope we can help each other, some how. please feel free to add me as a friend we can talk any time. I know how much you are hurting I am to.  take care   kim

 
 
 

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