Annita James
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About Me:
How can I answer this? I don't know anything about "me" anymore. Is there even really a me. I loved to read yet now all my books sit uncracked. Music was a big part of my identity. Now there is only silence. I prided myself on being up on current events but I haven't watched the news in weeks, lots of weeks. I haven't read the paper since I proofed the obituary. I don't even know my favorite color! So who am I? Am I anybody? Will I ever be somebody again?
About my Loss:
Tim was in a motorcycle accident in 2008 that almost severed his right leg below the knee, a clear day and a sober driver with no idea what a four way stop meant. You see she was in Houston on vacation and didn't have a license. 32 days shy of 7 years later he died of those injuries. All that time we mourned the death of our old life. Now I'm left to mourn the love of MY life.
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I was put in a position where I had to be his round the clock caregiver because none of his family would step up to help. For the most part they didn't even call. How do you divide yourself? Wife, Mother, Nurse, Friend, Spiritual Advisor. How do you figure which one is up to plate? It's like choosing to have multiple personalities. I had to learn wound care, PIC line dressings, signs of infection, physical therapy. The doctors said I was great. Every single day I felt crazier as I saw pieces of "me" drop away.

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