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Comment by Linda Engberg on September 16, 2017 at 3:02pm

Hi Paul,

It has 4 years since the loss of my beloved Husband of cancer. I can't wait to get off this miserable planet and join in. 

Comment by Paul on September 15, 2017 at 3:12pm

Kim,
I could have posted your comment just about word for word. I am 5 1/2 months into this hell and cannot foresee myself lasting years in this mindset. As far as I'm concerned, I have one good day left, the day I'm finally off of this miserable planet.

Comment by Nancy on September 12, 2017 at 9:31am

Kim:I'm in same boat.4 months. My daughter and grandson and I care for my husband and also watched him pass. He was very confused and that was a mixed blessing. He had no idea he was dying but we couldn't have good talks either. As the shock wears off I too feel reality is setting in and I am struggling more. It was a whirlwind as he only lived 7 months after diagnosis and half that time was in hospital. God Bless you.

Comment by Bruce Armstrong on September 12, 2017 at 9:27am

Hi Kim Not quite 3 mon's for me since I lost my wife only we know the hurt- things change so lonely in the evenings pace the floors -learn to say no if something does not feel right try to find one thing you like to do I go to cem. every day and get me a icecream on way home-I cry a lot hope time will heal both of us-I feel she would want me to live and be part of the family again someday-Wishing all a little better day today

Comment by Linda Engberg on September 7, 2017 at 3:44pm

Helen,

It has 4 years since I lost my Husband to cancer, not a day goes by that I don't think of him. I live for he day I will join him.

Comment by Helen Maez on September 7, 2017 at 2:37pm

hello everyone,

I haven't been here for a few days and I felt I needed to say a few things on my mind. which is  it seems  every single day, second, minute, and now months is a living hell, I try to keep myself busy, but their will some moments that I will catch myself and just brust out crying thinking of my partner. and how much I miss her.   

Comment by Linda Engberg on September 7, 2017 at 1:07pm

Mel,

I can't agree with you more, it has been 4 years since I lost my Husband Julian, each day is a living hell, the faster I join him the better I will be. 

Comment by Bruce Armstrong on September 7, 2017 at 9:03am

Mel.It has been just a little over 2 mon's and I have trouble thinking that I have this to look forward for years-My wife loved me and kids so I want to help kids in the future if I can need to get better myself so I can be dad and grandpa-She had so much pain in the end but stayed strong never spilling her pain on me-lost her in my arms cuddled close-I do fair during day but can not bear the evenings-lonely house-I'am looking for a good day and you too- nobody understands that lose

Comment by Mel Royer on September 7, 2017 at 7:06am

2 years and 4 months have passed since my Nancy died in my arms and unlike some of you, where the pain has moderated a little bit, mine just keeps rising. The only thought on my mind, most of the time, is when will I join my bride. She was the one who defined who I was over 22 years and since she is gone I am totally lost, unformed, a lost soul longing for his other half. I see no end to this misery save when I join her on the other side. May God bless us all as we wait until he brings us over and rejoins us with our lost loved ones for eternity. 

Comment by Linda Engberg on September 7, 2017 at 6:47am

To everyone on this web-site, I can't thank all of you enough to share your thoughts, it keeps me going.

Thank you, Linda

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