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Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 6 Replies

  I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue

Started by Nicole. Last reply by Martha Washburn Sep 22, 2022.

Loss of spouse… 3 Replies

For 40+ years we were together…married 39 years….We were to celebrate our 40th anniversary…Nobody who hasn’t been married, and lost a spouse could possibly understand….even though he was into many…Continue

Started by Susan B. Last reply by Connie Sep 1, 2022.

Today is the anniversary of my wedding day 2 Replies

I got married on May 1, 1992 and lost my husband on June 30, 2017. My wedding day was the happiest day of my life and if I had one wish, it would be to go back and live that day over. It has been…Continue

Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz May 3, 2020.

Lost my light in the darkness 2 Replies

I lost my wife on the 25 of March after returning from my Dads funeral. She is everything to me. No matter how bad it got, no matter how much my PTSD drug me down, She has been my light in the…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Shane Hughes Apr 16, 2020.

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Comment by Trina Mamoon on April 17, 2015 at 5:44pm

Hi Dianne,

It's very sad when you have to part with personal belongings of your loved one. It just breaks your heart. We have to go through all these very painful things; there's always something that we need to do that causes pain. Take care.

Comment by lost on April 17, 2015 at 5:43pm
My honey passed on 3/05/15. I have had family with me every night since that day. Tonight will be my first night alone. How do I do it? How can I be alone tonight? I am sitting here on my couch wondering why?? Why did this happen to me?? Why after 41yrs of marriage that I must be here without James?? This can't be happening to me?? I'm a good person. James was a good person. Why does this happen to good people?? I hate this. I hate being without my soulmate. This is so surreal. Please....this hurts so much. I just don't know if I can deal with being alone in this house with so many memories. My head hurts from all the memories swirling around. I hate my life now. What life without my honey??
Comment by Trina Mamoon on April 17, 2015 at 5:42pm

Dear Sandy, very sorry for your loss. Sending healing prayers your way. 

Comment by Dianne M. on April 17, 2015 at 4:51pm

sold our RV today...so darn sad. He always loved that vehicle and we had so many plans for it this summer and next. I got an OK price from the dealer so I cant complain too much except that I would much rather be complaining about it being in the drive way than having to sell it.

Going to have a good cry after a few glasses of wine tonight.

Comment by Dianne M. on April 17, 2015 at 3:02pm

Sandy I am so very sorry.

Comment by Tildyc on April 17, 2015 at 12:12pm
Sandy- oh I'm so sorry. This is all just so sad. My heart absolutely goes out to you. And m morgan is right... Your Mark and your daddy are together now. I wish there was someway I could take away all this pain. All our pain. Please keep in touch with us on here Sandy. I'll be here for whatever little help that I can offer.
Comment by George H on April 17, 2015 at 12:02pm
I'm so sorry sandy
Comment by morgan on April 17, 2015 at 10:09am

My heart just skipped a beat Sandy…….Mark gathered him him up and showed him his way…….Namaste…..

Comment by Sandy Elaine Norris on April 17, 2015 at 6:10am

My dear friends, at 6am Georgia time, my daddy passed away. Please keep me and my family in your hearts over the next few days. I'm not even sure what to feel right now. Broken hearted

Comment by morgan on April 16, 2015 at 10:29pm

I wish I had more energy to respond but I can only say that:

Dianne-tonight you have nailed it….rotten sinking boat…...

Sandy- I will be thinking of you tonight and so will Mark. He is there in the room walking with your dad.

George- Sorry the grief group didn't help.  We're still here though so in a way this group seems to be the best for all of us.

JohnT- I cry wherever and whenever it hits me.  Given how long this emotion has been obscured from the public at large its time we bring the reality of the life cycle to its rightful place.  

Nancy- now that must have hit pretty hard…….

Fran-the mechanical stuff is one of those areas where I either give myself a lot of time for frustration and the predictable meltdown or I don't do it.  Most often it is the latter.

Trina-  your visit to the doc, his detachment and then your clean bill of health?  I  decided from day one I will not go see a doc until I know it is too late for myself.  I don't want anyone "fixing" me or learning I might still be healthy enough that I cant dream of my escape sooner. 

 

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It was not supposed to be like this

In 2014 I met the most amazing man ever. We were both in our very early 20s and were looking for different things at the time. We ceased communication for roughly 6 months. During which time, he completed basic training and joined the Air Force. By the time we reconnected he was already at his first duty station.. 8 hours away.We decided we wanted to continue our relationship and proceeded to cultivate a deeply emotional connection. Regular calls and video chats, visits while he was home on…See More
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