Information

Traumatic, Sudden Loss

Members: 942
Latest Activity: Oct 5, 2022

Traumatic, Sudden Loss

I have started this group for people who like myself have suddenly, tragically and traumatically lost a loved one.

My mom died 8 weeks ago (August 17, 2009) She had been sick but I did not know the true extent of her illness. Her doctor knew she did not have long and I went to each doctor visit and talked to him at the hospital and he never told me and I do not believe mom knew either. I am not sure.

I found my mom sitting up on her bed and I know I knew she was gone. I still am in deep shock and cry occasionally but only a minute or two. Then I am back to not feeling or feel numb.

Discussion Forum

Loss of boyfriend due to motorcycle 3 Replies

Hello everyone, my name is Brittany. I am new to this and not quiet sure how this works. My therapist pointed me in this direction so i thought i would give it a try. I am 24 years old from…Continue

Started by Brittany. Last reply by Denise D Jan 31, 2021.

New to the Group

Hello All-I am a new widow as my husband passed away April 21, 2018 at the age of 49. He suffered a heart attack and had no previous history of any heart conditions nor does it run in his family.  I…Continue

Started by Danielle Wood Aug 2, 2018.

Struggling 2 Replies

Hi. My name is Cristal. I lost the love of my life on July 2nd. He had leukemia and had no idea. I begged him to see a doctor in the months prior to his death but he would not do it. He also suffered…Continue

Started by Cristal. Last reply by Cristal Aug 1, 2018.

My "Little Brother"

Hi Everyone, My name is Carlyn, and I live in the Ft. Lauderdale area. I joined this site because a very dear friend of mine was killed in a hit-and-run accident in May. My friend Rick, whom I called…Continue

Tags: violent, death, loss, sudden, friend

Started by Carlyn Jorgensen Aug 28, 2017.

Comment Wall

Comment

You need to be a member of Traumatic, Sudden Loss to add comments!

Comment by dream moon JO B on December 17, 2013 at 3:39pm

i cnt get over it i jst get sic of bean tld 2 get over it it rely p@@@ss me ff wn thy say it 

it mks me feal sad coz of xmas i wish i cud sleep thru it or disper s wear 

sory if im rantng 2 mush

Comment by Danny on December 16, 2013 at 5:05pm

indeed you do not have to get over it.

Comment by dream moon JO B on December 16, 2013 at 4:15pm

missy on hear u can say hw u feal on hear it hlps

blog discus forom join grps cretat grps lk a lot of us did 

never let any 1 tell u 2 get over it coz thy mk it worse iv bean tlold ths a lot of tms never let any 1 tell u 2 get over it

jo

Comment by Debra A. Whitemaine on December 16, 2013 at 4:03pm

Missy, you can write all you want and hopefully it helps you cope.  That is a horrible way to lose your son and Mom.  And how is your Dad doing with all of this?  My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Comment by anne on December 16, 2013 at 3:55pm

Oh Missy you can go on all you want. The whole thing makes no sense at all. How could this possibly be your fault? You weren't even there. This really is a hard one. Anyway you can write all you want. Maybe there is a lesson here for everyone.

Comment by anne on December 15, 2013 at 3:35pm

Hopefully one day Missy you will know what happened that day. Peace to you.

Comment by anne on December 11, 2013 at 9:44pm

So what would possess her to do this awful deed?

Comment by anne on December 11, 2013 at 8:36pm

Was she suffering any dementia, or dellusions? Sorry I'm so nosy, but I have never run across something like this ever. You don't have to reply to me. It's none of my business, but I am curious, but it's your choice. I guess I have always wondered about my own mother. I always had a hard time understanding her growing up. I still do sometimes, but she's now 83 so any getting her to talk to me like a grown up is not going to happen. She's a bit of a martyr, and I never really know how to take her.

I think you should concentrate on you right now. You have suffered a double loss. This won't be easy at all. If talking about it helps I'm here. I'm a pretty good listener, and I have been through a lot in my lifetime, but not what you are going through, but I do have big shoulders.

Comment by anne on December 11, 2013 at 5:13pm

Conflicted truly is an understatement. If you don't mind my asking, was your mother ill?

Comment by anne on December 10, 2013 at 5:35pm

Oh my gosh Missy. The police have to tell you what happened. Heck I'm shocked for ya. You are welcome here. You just go ahead and write all you need to. My heart hurts for you. That's a lot to handle. You have my support, and comfort.

 

Members (942)

 
 
 

Latest Activity

Gary Ruby is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Nov 19
Julie is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Nov 5
Speed Weasel commented on Speed Weasel's blog post A Return to GriefShare and a Crisis of Identity
"GriefShare is a church based support group. They do have meetings online, but the usual format is a group of people experiencing a loss getting together weekly to watch videos (13 weeks total) about grief and loss. After the video, we talk about the…"
Oct 21
Natasha commented on Speed Weasel's blog post A Return to GriefShare and a Crisis of Identity
"is griefshare a website like this?"
Oct 21
dream moon JO B updated their profile
Oct 16
Morgan Sangrouber is now a member of Online Grief Support - A Social Community
Oct 10
Addie replied to Kali's discussion It was not supposed to be like this in the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
"Kali I’m so so sorry you are going through this. Grief is hard enough, but going through it secretly, all the while having to continue showing up for your kids, is just brutal. Perhaps your friend was careful to hide your conversations behind…"
Sep 26
Kali added a discussion to the group Being the Other Woman/Other Man
Thumbnail

It was not supposed to be like this

In 2014 I met the most amazing man ever. We were both in our very early 20s and were looking for different things at the time. We ceased communication for roughly 6 months. During which time, he completed basic training and joined the Air Force. By the time we reconnected he was already at his first duty station.. 8 hours away.We decided we wanted to continue our relationship and proceeded to cultivate a deeply emotional connection. Regular calls and video chats, visits while he was home on…See More
Sep 26

© 2024   Created by Ninja.   Powered by

Badges  |  Report an Issue  |  Terms of Service