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Comment by Pam Brooks on June 2, 2011 at 10:51pm

It's been 14 months since my daughter passed away.  She left behind 2 children.  I miss her so much and cry daily, still.  Guess I will never stop grieving.  Thanks for listening.

Comment by marlene lovell on June 2, 2011 at 9:29am

Annette, I too lost my husband five months ago. There is no way to tell you how to deal with this..the waves of pain come and go..What keeps me going is my strong belief that his soul survives and he is still present yet not seen. I still find myself waiting for him to come home and little things such as the sports teams he loved make me miss him even more. It is true when they say that you do take it one day at a time for if you do not then utter despair will overwhelm you. Always feel your full feelings and know that we are here for you even when it seems as if family and friends have moved on.

Comment by Annette Dominguez on June 2, 2011 at 9:15am

My husband has been gone 5 months. I still cry almost every day. I miss him so much. The anxiety comes and goes. I have friends and family but I am sure they are tired of me by now. This is the worst thing anyone has to go through in their lives. I know millions of other people have done this but I don't know how they do it. My emotions are all over the place. The only stable thing I have is God and I cry out to Him all the time. Any comments on how to deal with this are welcomed.

Comment by Karen R. on June 2, 2011 at 7:28am

Greetings Anne and everyone, you are absolutely right, there is not much more than we can all do but write. At least we know that surely someone will sincerely understand our pain and sadness. No one here would ever tell us to "stop" or that we should not still be grieving. The bottom line for me is that I want my son back! I will always want him back and I will NEVER be "OK" with this. Thanks again for listening.

Comment by anne on June 1, 2011 at 11:45pm

to all of you hurting from the loss of a child. I wish you peace. Keep on writing and talking it's really about all we can do.

Comment by Sandra LaBonte on June 1, 2011 at 7:58pm

Fari, I too am sorry for your loss. Please feel free to share your experience with me. The only thing I have realized about this nightmare is that is does help to talk.

Comment by farida narain on June 1, 2011 at 6:05pm

Sandra I am so very sorry to hear that you lost your only child and my heart goes out to you.  My daughter died almost 7 months ago in a collision accident.  The man who caused her death is alive but my daughter died instantly.  It is so very painful and heartbreaking.  Believe me Sandra I know exactly what you are going through because I have been going one step forward one step backward ever since.  There is that big hole in my heart and it would remain like that until my time comes to go as well.  I would like to share more of my grief experience with you if you would let me.   My name is Fari.

Comment by Arne Tonessen on May 31, 2011 at 4:41am

Panic attacks are non-stop. My heart races and I can barely breath. Anything and everything seems to trigger them.  From using pots and pans, a wedding gift, to making something to eat to just looking at where my wife sat next to me on the couch. I've been unable to sleep for more than 15 min. at a time. I go to work to keep busy and just want to leave as soon as I get there. I feel like I'm losing my mind at times.

 

Comment by Marti Shaffer on May 16, 2011 at 7:24am

Lorna, welcome the only way i get through this is:     

breathe in..... breathe out..... put one foot in front of the other..........breathe in.... breathe out......put one foot in front of the other..... when u can't breathe..CRY.

When you just can't get that one foot in front of the other...,STAND....  and above all else PRAY!!!!!!!!

Comment by Lorna on May 16, 2011 at 12:09am

Its been 3 months since my husband died from cardiac arrest at home where I had to do CPR till the medics got here. Today I was going through some of his race things and it hit me all over again that he was not here and will not be and it hurts so much... I try to get through each day but at night he is not here!!He was my life for 19 years.. so how do you just go on?

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