Miss My Dad

About 10 days ago, my dad died unexpectedly, but i have to wait for the cause of death. It's been extremely tough on me, my mom and my 2 sisters. I was in complete shock, and the past couple of days has been a slap in the face, and im finally understanding whats happeneing. i am also extremely anxious that i wont be able to get through this because it is too tough.

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Permalink Reply by anna l. on March 23, 2012 at 12:39am

Alex, I am so sorry for your loss.  It is so tough.  Our brains protect us by making us numb at first, and as that numbness wears off it hurts more than anyone who hasnt been there can imagine.  We have all been there.  We do understand and we wish you didnt have to know.  Welcome to the group and feel free to talk about anything and ask questions if you need.  Someone here is bound to have something supportive to say.

 

Permalink Reply by christianlee on March 23, 2012 at 7:33am
Hi Alex. So sorry for your loss. I lost my dad too unexpected. Its almost a year in June and the pain is still present. We're here for you.
Permalink Reply by Barbara Santoli on March 23, 2012 at 1:54pm

Dear Alex

Welcome. All of what you are feeling we here have or are still feeling. My thoughts are with you as you go through this process. It is not easy but come here when you need and someone will always listen and try to help.

Barbara

Permalink Reply by MIchael A Ballard on April 3, 2012 at 2:43pm
Hello Alex and I am sorry for your loss. You will find very nice people on here who will help you deal with this all. You have a friend in me. We know what this is like and you are not alone. Michael

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