On may 29th 2010 my dad was on his way to my 26th birthday party when at 5:05pm he was struck head on by an impaired driver.My dad was on his motorbike and stood no chance against a half ton pick up truck. I am phisically and emotionally sick. i am in councelling but nothing is helping .. all i want is my dad , my hero, my best friend. And now hes gone. how do i move on? can i move on? I have his helmat , leather jacket and riding boots he was wearing at the time they are all torn and the front of the helmat is smashed but i will never get rid of it. i feel so lost without im he was my guider and my 3 children miss their Papa so much. The case is still in court i feel so lost and i just want to know if it will ever get even a little easier one day. please help me

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I have not found that it gets easier. I was still grieving the loss of my dad when my mom was killed. It is the hardest thing to deal with. With the holidays upon us, I imagine it will be extraordinarily difficult. I, too, have been in counseling but it does not help. It just feels like nobody understands what it is like--- ya know?
i hear ya. ive been hospitalizd for a massive ulcer due to this im so tired of court and leagal talk all i want is justice and to reclaim my life. i will never give up on getting justice for my dad ever. this is now my goal in life. he did not desrve to die the way he did and the accused does not desreve to walk. thank you so much everyone for your replies
Hi Jessi my name is Elizabeth people call me libby, I too lost my father, it's been nine years. Jessie it does get easier it takes time and is a process. I am 49 and have been married 31 years, in that time we have lost sixteen members of our immediate family. I understand grief.. My dad was buried on november 2nd. A few weeks ago on november 2nd my sister was killed in a car accident.. I'm telling you these things so you will know others have been exactly where you are we do survive the pain. sometimes it doesn't seem like we will but we do. What helped me with my dad was when I began to have conversations with him.
No it's not crazy, yes I believe he still hears me. Go for a walk say hi tell him about your day and about the kids, be open to what you see and feel, it helps..
i do that alot and it only helps for te momnt . im devistated to find out ysterday that the accused might walk
The guy who murdered my mom may walk too. Can you imagine? Victims have NO rights!! They are sooo worried about the perpetrator and political coorrectness!! It is devastating. I will be praying for justice in your dad's case.
tank you and im sorry for wat your going thru i know the pain trust me theres nothing like it
so true....
it sickens me to no end. why do we even have a justice system if it doesnt work?
Hi jessie my name is melissa. i am sorry for your loss. i am almosy 29 years old and i lost my 15 year old sister december 13th 2009. she was in a vehicle with 6 people and the person driving was fooling around and caused them to crash. Breanne died instantly. the driver was 18 years old and is being charged. he did not only kill my sister but another girl that was in the car. he finally just pleaded guilty friday of last week and we still dont have a triel date. i too wonder how the heck i am supossed to deal this. I miss my sister so much and the pain wont go away. people always say time will help heal you but sometimes i dont see that. if you ever need anyone to talk to i am here as i could use a friend also. take care. <3<3
Thank you im just at a loss as i dont understand how they can let ppl like the accused who killed my dad walk free. im devistated dads birthday would have been tomorow he would have been 59

do you have a hotmail address? a friend would be great right about now

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