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mY sOuLmAtE, mY bEsTfRiEnD,mY sUpErMaN,mY eVeRyThInG

this is ment for the people who have lost the closest thing to them it doesnt matter if its a person or an animal it's stilla lost and they all hurt

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How do you move forward?

Started by Kay Apr 26, 2016.

How do I live without the one person I can't live without? 17 Replies

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Comment by Kali Grainger on October 25, 2012 at 3:30pm

Many times I wish God would have taken the 3 of us rather than taking Chris and leaving the baby and I behind.... I just want our family to be whole again.

Comment by Kim Phillips on October 23, 2012 at 3:21pm

Joseph i understand the HATE!  My best friend and soulmate passed 5 months ago. It is sooooo lonely.  I am so angry and I wish I could have gone with her.  It seems as if each day becomes harder and each day becomes more lonely and each day i become more angry.  I wish you the best.  Sending out a hug.

Comment by Joseph G. Bartlett on October 23, 2012 at 6:12am

YOU KNOW I HATE THE FACT THAT MY WIFE IS DEAD AND I HATE  THE FACT THAT IM ALONE IN THIS  AND THE ONLY PEOPLE TO TALK TO IS EITHER TO YOUNG OR TO OLD  TO UNDERSTAND ME  I HAVE NO BROTHERS OR SISTERS  FAMILY OF ENY KIND FROM BOTH SIDES AS WELL  I HATE THE FACT THAT ME ANDD MY BELOVED WIFE WERE ONLY CHILDREN  NOBODY SHOULD MOURN ALONE BUT IT SEEMS THAT WHAT IM STUCK WITH  AND I HATE THE FACT THAT IT WASN'T ME INSTEAD  I WOULD OF GLADY HAVE GONE IN HER PLACE WITH OUT QUESTION        

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Comment by Teresa Barnes on September 25, 2012 at 10:53pm

I just tonight went to a grief support group in my hometown and I am feeling that I made a good decision to venture out and join this group.  I lost my husband to liver cancer on August 3rd after a short-long-intense battle of 4 1/2 months... I miss him as he was my best friend - we had been together for 20 years and would have celebrated our 19th anniversary this November. Some days I do "okay" and other days are very difficult.

Comment by Candace Dawn Bundy on September 24, 2012 at 12:34pm

I am another women who lost her fiance suddenly.  He died from what we know right now is complications due to pneumonia, but he had other health issues too.  He died just over a month ago and I miss him so much. I am lucky that his family loves me like a daughter and a sister, but it is still hard to all of the sudden not be able to talk to him or to plan for our wedding. 

Comment by Kali Grainger on August 18, 2012 at 3:36pm

Thanks Anna. I have a small urn with some of his ashes in that I can keep. His sister has one also. We buried the main urn and that was his moms decision. Since we weren't married I don't think his family really validates our relationship which is hard. Even though we lived together and had a baby... But I know Chris is with Ellis & I and that's all that matters to me.

Comment by anna l. on August 18, 2012 at 2:32pm

Hugs Kali, I still have my husbands ashes at home, and my daughter in law has Karls ashes at her home.  We want to spread them together in a very special place but we cant seem to get the other kids and grandkids all here at the same time to do it.  Im not looking forward to that day so I suspect that is why it has been 2 and 1 years and its not done.  Hard stuff.

 

Comment by Kali Grainger on August 18, 2012 at 12:35pm

We buried his ashes yesterday... All day my stomach was in knots. It makes me sad that I can't be buried with him when it's my time as his mom decided to bury him with his grandma.... I asked him to give me all his strength to get through the day without breaking down and I believe he did. I cried but it was controlled. At least now I have a place I can go to get away from everything and just sit and talk to him. I talk to him all the time anyways but I am usually at home so it's filled with his pictures and things that remind me of him.

Comment by Sophia Colon on July 6, 2012 at 5:20pm
Today is one,of those days .... Feeling,real,empty wishing he was still here so he can holld me and tell me everything was ok
Comment by Debra Waszut on July 5, 2012 at 7:05am

Today is your birthday.  It's been only 6 1/2 weeks since you left me.  I had to do the 4th of july without you and i don't know how I got through but I did.  Now the birthday.  The day God sent my angel to be on earth for me.  What a wonderful gift. 

 

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