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Comment by susan joanette wilson on May 8, 2012 at 4:38pm

My name joanette. My mom stabbed to death in 1989 I think my grandfather died of a broken heart when my mom died. she was 54 and he was 84. Nov. of 2009 my oldest son was hit crossing the street. He was 32 and riding his bicycle.  He was hit by a 4x4 half ton pu with no lights on. bluntforce to the chest.  he died of a torn aortic artery  than 2010 we lost our father. He was 84  I was really glad to be there when he passed. now 2011 I lost my youngest son. He was hit by akid 19 years old high on marijuana and meth. The legal issues are starting  tomarrow is the first  anniversary. of his passing. I really miss them. hurts so bad.  its hard to care for others when its all i can barely take care of me.  

Comment by Mary Elizabeth Dolnick on December 27, 2011 at 2:55pm

Hi , my name is Mary and 3yrs ago I lost my mom before that my brother who was my best friend both to cancer...then in June my sweet adorable neice to an accidental drowning...then my son in Aug to Brain cancer...then 2 of my cousins...so to say the least I am a mess....can't get out out of bed most days...have no interest in living.......

Comment by Robin Jone on December 20, 2011 at 11:21pm

Hi, I'm not new to the online grief support. I joined a couple of  months ago my son, Zach died in a tragic accident September 3. Losing him has been the worst loss in my life. I always said that I have been able to keep going one foot in front of the other, but if I ever lost one of my children I didn't think I would ever recover from that. When I was 8 years old my Mom (who was only 35) died of a heart attack. When I was 18 my Dad died of bladder cancer, he was only 47. When I was 36 my brother, who was only 38, died in an accident. My nephew was shot and killed two years ago, he was only 25. There have been many more losses in my life, too many. The reason why I have listed them is to show that some how, I have been able to go on. I truly believe that all the prayers that my family and I have received is what keeps me going, one day at a time. I have a good friend who told me, I could make a choice I could give up or I could chose to survive. I am trying so hard to survive, some days its not as easy as others. I sometimes think I am just trying to stay so busy so that I don't have to accept losing my Zach. It still is not real, though I know it is, I just don't want to accept it. I am so thankful that I have my husband, and three daughters, and two beautiful little granddaughters. I know God has blessed me, though I still have so many questions for him one day. I pray for all of us who are grieving, may we find some peace and find some comfort in our memories of our loved ones. I pray that Zach is with all my loved ones and having a great big party and enjoying all the beauty. Big hugs and prayers for all. Robin

Comment by Mary Rowan - Harless on December 20, 2011 at 9:29pm

As the days pass I ask myself several times during the day "Whats gives?". In March 2011, my granddaughter Cadence died, August, my brother Rick was killed, October my 13 yr. old bobcat died, and within that same month my husband had a heart attack, and most recently my 13 yr. old K9 German Shepard died of cancer. I sometimes wonder how much my heart can take. There are many nights I wonder how I am going to make it through another day. My mind races with what ifs, I should of done this or that, the maybe I could of done more. And then there are days where I wait for that next hurt, disaster, loss, to come my way. Its almost like I am preparing myself. I want to thank each and everyone of you for sharing your thoughts and feelings I have spent the past few hours reading comments on this site and I am comforted in knowing I am not alone, and I am not going crazy. HUGS....

Comment by Jo swearingen on December 6, 2011 at 8:01pm

It has been 3 months today since I lost my husband. It is very hard To continue on especially at Christmas time. I feel like this is not real even though I know he is gone. I manage each day at a time. When will this get better? You know we are prepared for many things in life but I was not prepared to lose my loved one this soon.

Comment by Lisa Lynn Davis on November 23, 2011 at 6:56pm

Hi Im new and really dont talk to much about my losses, but its just to hard to cope.How do you bare get through one loss just to go through another.I have lost my father, brother, mother,and just recently my pookie, my little dog.My mom always told me there is a reason for everything,but what sadness and grief.I was by my moms side when she passed.It was horrible just waiting for her to pass, I wanted her to go on to heaven and when i told her to go ,she went.Everthing thats meant anything to me has been taking away.The loss of my mom was just 6 months ago,and now my little dog of thirteen years.How do you cope everyday without being sad.

Comment by Marilyn Stevens on November 8, 2011 at 7:00pm

I'm a Clinical Social Worker checking out this website for a client. She is 71, lost her daughter after caring for her in a quadriplegic condition for 10 years. Then she lost her brother, and a couple years ago lost her husband on Veteran's Day. She really need someone to talk too at night. How do you use the chat feature?

Comment by Susan Z Z Wooten on October 18, 2011 at 9:36pm

Michael, wth are you talking about??????  of course he needs a doctor for a recommendation........sorry to be so sarcastic, but what the hell does this help?  he WON:T GO

Comment by Susan Z Z Wooten on October 17, 2011 at 8:51pm

am changing my avatar pict........no longer happy g dammit.  am so torn up over this.

Comment by Susan Z Z Wooten on October 17, 2011 at 8:50pm

i need help.  my friend Chris has pancreatic cancer and hasn't told his mom nor his (adult) daughter.......now i find today he is suicidal.  what do i do?

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