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Comment by dream moon JO B on August 22, 2012 at 4:45pm

my dad used to rire all the anversys of the death in the family doown so we woodnt foget the day thy died i no 2 of his sisters died march yrs ago last sensery anti eadi ti kidny canser and anti ann to breast canser my granmother kate to old age my step grandad dropet don des on my sisters weding day in the late 70s but i woz a tot my anti mary to lung canser my anti flo to bone canser my dads cuzen danny to lukema my unle h to old age my cuzen stevo to pancraeted to canser my cuzen and to brain canser my cuzens baby who died still born this yer this moth our frend mary who cud sea in to thr futvher another frend of the family brenda to cander our nebor billy died droping down ded and rafie another nebour died of canser and anoth frend ria of the family died of canser just fond out my cuzems husband has canser i thn canser is evil desease not fair and losing my dad woz vdery painfukll and still is

Comment by Angel on August 22, 2012 at 9:21am

it's so hard to join a new group and answer everyone..so I am just going to list my losses so each of you know I belong here and understand....I'm going to list chronologically:

Dad

21 year old daughter.(will be 15 years next week) caused a dx of PTSD

cousin ..51...lung cancer (we grew up like sisters)

closest friend of 30 years (her son died cron Leukemia 6 months before my daughter)

my sister....51.....suicide

mother-in-law and father-in-law who I was caretaker for a week apart from each other

my husband....54....lung and bone cancer ...18 months ago

one month ago....a first cousin ...62 ...to cancer....and the next day ...my friend since we were 10 years old...48 years we were friends..

I now believe I suffer from multiple loss syndrome...I have met a man who is kind and gentle and understands me totally...but I keep running from him...I cry if he's not around....but when we get close I run..I am petrified..to love...I am so afraid of what I feel for him..Have started to see a psychologist for this reason...have done my share of grief groups and will be starting a pretty intense one in Oct..I hope it helps....I pray alot...My thoughts for peace of mind and heart to all of you

Comment by Nicole on August 13, 2012 at 4:10am

I lost my close family members in the last 3 years, one each year.  Gran in 2009, Dad in 2010, Mom in 2011.  Now my other gran has been diagnosed with lung cancer and doctors don't think she will live to see next year.  I have a younger sister and she is the only close family member left.  I am 26 and she is 25.  We have to spend the rest of our lives with no more parents and pretty soon no more grandparents.

Comment by dream moon JO B on August 10, 2012 at 4:06pm

i didnt relize that i lost a lot of peope over the yrs i com on hear coz i wozent coping with my dads death thn i remberd i lost my grandmother wen i woz a tean lots of antis and a great uncle lots of nebors over the yrs who i rspeceded and lots of cuzens to canser this web site has made me relise how many people iv lost

Comment by Brette Stinson on July 13, 2012 at 11:46pm

A young adult orphan with no siblings or children. I asked GOD why I was not left with anybody or someone to understand exactly what I want to go through. I am so lost!

Comment by Lori on June 1, 2012 at 11:12am

Thank you Anna. I met my husband at 21, so my whole adult life has been with him. I honestly can't stand this which of course I don't have a choice .

Comment by anna l. on June 1, 2012 at 3:05am

Lori I can relate to the differences.  When my dad died I was only 9 and my family surrounded me with love from all sides.  He had been ill for many years so I think I also had gotten used to him being gone for prolonged hospital stays.  There were other family and close friends deaths through the years but I met my husband when I was 19 and he was my rock.  Last year when he suddenly got so violently sick and then passed away I was left reeling. 

Comment by Lori on June 1, 2012 at 2:53am

I joined this group because it fit me best. I lost my parents by the time I was 19. Subsequently, I lost my closest Aunt and Uncle, and then my sister and brother in law. I have learned to live with these losses..of course it will always hurt.

Recently, (March 19) I lost my husband of almost 35 years. He was a widower when we met and had also lost his sister so I guess we understood loss and where there for each other.

Each loss is different and brings different pain. I really thought I was a tough cookie, but I have to say this one has crumbled. I am having such a very hard time, my heart is breaking, I can't sleep..it's awful. I try to do ONE thing each day. I tried to go back to work, I thought it would be good for me, but unfortunately my work environment is rather hostile and with everything going on I can't deal with that too. Our only son is in the Navy and currently deployed, so that is rough too. I have some wonderful navy mom friends that are beyond incredible but they live all over the country. At home, I have a few close friends but its hard as they are busy. I try to be strong, but I know I have to grieve. When my Mom passed I went about my business as usual and ended up getting paralysed on my right side, it was caused by not dealing and coping with what I was going through.

I just want to scream.

Thank you for letting me share and vent, I know you all are going through rough times as well.

Comment by Robin Jone on May 18, 2012 at 11:43pm

Hi everyone, have not been on the site for awhile. A lot of times on get on and read everyones comments and just feel your pain. Joanne, I know how you feel, sometimes the pain is just unbearable. I have lost parents, brother, nephew, grandparents, sister-in-laws, mother and father-in-law and lastly on September 3, 2011 I lost my son in a tragic accident. I didn't think I would ever be able to go on if I lost one of my children. I still really don't know how I am functioning, I think it is just through everyones prayers because if it was up to me I would just give up. I just try to do this today, and try my hardest not to think about tomorrow because that is unbearable. Hugs and prayers for everyone who is suffering. Robin

Comment by Joanne Welch on May 18, 2012 at 1:01pm

I feel like I've lost everyone I've ever loved.  Over my lifetime I've lost all grandparents, both parents, in-laws, multiple pets, and now at 47 I've lost my husband.  I have no one left.  It's so hard to even come up with a reason to go on.  It hurts so much.  

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