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Comment by Gail Richardson on June 16, 2009 at 2:14am

Katherine - remembering Irene today and always - my heart goes out to you my love. These are the days we shouldn't have to have.
Much love Gail xxxx

Comment by Kar on June 15, 2009 at 7:21pm

((( HUGS ))) to everyone !!!!!

Comment by Kar on June 15, 2009 at 7:21pm

Robert - just wanted to send you love, wish I had a coping skill for you- I am at a loss. Just know we all understand & care. Karen

Comment by Kar on June 15, 2009 at 7:15pm

((((( KATHERINE ))))) Thinking of you & your beautiful Irene!

Comment by Ann Edmondson on June 12, 2009 at 3:15pm

I know it may not sound like much comfort - but try reading the book of Job in the Old Testament. I have found some solice there after the death of my own son. You had some hard choices to make and God has blessed you with new life in your new daughter. You will find that everyone here is willing to listen and offer support in many ways. Gail has some really powerful suggestions on coping. Some I have used. I also put together a scrap book of pictures of my son which helped. My prayers are with you. ~ Ann

Comment by fred upton on June 12, 2009 at 2:11pm

you are a stronger person than i am robert. i hope life lets you hold on to the rest as i am trying to do as well.we must cherrish what we have i think is the cruel little kid god must be to inflict death on any of our young! sorry bro!

Comment by Gail Richardson on June 12, 2009 at 11:50am

Robert - reading your story of your three beautiful Angels puts my own grief into perspective - I know how much it hurt to lose one child - to lose three - I cannot imagine.
But you have been given a coping mechanism with the birth of your new daughter.
You will have to trust me that life does get easier - I always tell people to take on day at a time because it's as much as we can do. Our whole life has been turned upside down and the future we had planned has been snatched away. Your grief is also still very new and raw. This is a long and hard journey we have found ourselves on - all we can do is stumble on blindly and reach out to others when we are struggling.
One of my coping mechanisms is to have a Celebration of Life party for my daughter. My friends gather here and we remember her and release balloons, filled with love, into the evening sky. It helps to have friends around who can support and understand and I hope you have many of them. This is a time of talking - so talk till you cannot talk anymore, rememb your beautiful Angels and cry - because crying is also healing. Maybe you can do something special each year, plant a tree or just go lay flowers. It really does help to be doing something - even though it hurts like hell.
Are you seeing any counsillors or talking to anyone? - I don't know where abouts you are but the Compassionate Friends have groups all over and they are some of the most wonderful and understanding people I have known.
I'm so sorry to hear about your stroke and hope that you are feeling a lot better now. I have quite a few friends who have suffered the same but they are managing well now on meds. Watch your diet, take regular exercise and you should be fine. Concentrate on being well enough to watch your children grow and take some little comfort from knowing that your little Angels are together and free from any pain and suffering. You are obviously a very wonderful Father - don't feel bad for having a second chance at happiness.
Sending you blessings and healing light - our Angels will always watch over us
Gail

Comment by Robert Tinsley on June 12, 2009 at 9:59am

this june 25 is the annivesery of the death of my babies death i,m 32 and am finding the stress overwelming i just got out of the hospital yesterday i had a small stroke but almost died from complications which really scares me cause ive got a new baby breanna necole who i love so very much because i want to be there for the next 40 or 50 years maybe some of you can help me with some copeing skills that im not aware of anyone that has a comment that might help me would appreceaite all (((((((((((((((hugs to everyone)))))))))))))))

Comment by Gail Richardson on June 12, 2009 at 6:32am

I know there are a few of sharing anniversaries in the next few days and I just wanted to let you know that I am holding you all close to my heart and hope that our united strength will get us all through these dreadful times. I'm missing my Angel so very much and am having problems with some memories I usually don't like to deal with. I'm sure I'm not the only one - so how about a group hug ((((((((((((((((((((((HUGZZZZZZZ)))))))))))))))))))
love always Gail x

Comment by Katherine Ellis on June 9, 2009 at 10:23pm

Oh my gosh. What an out pouring of Strenght from everyone. I will wear it in my heart tomorrow at the funeral. All I can say is Thank you for all the ove and prayers, for God will help get me through this as he has the others. Fred the fists are up, well trying anyway. God Bless you all. Karen you know where my heart is honey.

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