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Comment by Kar on November 26, 2009 at 12:25pm

I set here alone on a holiday I use to enjoy (thanksgiving) I just couldnt find the strength to put on that fake face I needed to to go be with hubbys & my family. They are all caring people I love - I just struggle to be - let alone be around people - the look in their eyes when they look at me is just more than I can take - and the children all seem afraid of me now. (i use to be the fun aunt) So I sent what is left of my family on with out me. at least to the first stop (meal) hubbys family - later I have to see if I can go to my sisters, thought it was going to be a small gathering & now it is 28 - I just dont think I can do it..... just thinking of walkin into those places today & I cant seem to stop my tears from flowing-
How do I go to a family gathering without my Brad---? Yes, I have done this - I struggle so deeply & pretty much shake all day. so why- why do I feel so guilty for not going?
ok- main answer - it is not fair to the family I have left. I just cant seem to find the strength ...........

Hope all of you are feeling stronger than me- but, I am going go ahead & post this just in case anyone else is struggling to this extent today.

Comment by Allan on November 26, 2009 at 11:59am

Thanksgiving (U.S.)
Thanks to you all for being here. I needed a little quiet time before putting on my "happy holiday face" so I checked the site this morning. The comments by Gail, Katherine, Karen and Wendy were very much appreciated. I too want to remember all that I have to be thankful for...but admittedly this day will be better when it is behind me.
If this is a holiday where you live let me know how you spent your day. I value your input more than from well-wishers who have no idea what we are going through.
Peace, Allan

Comment by Kar on November 26, 2009 at 12:08am

"Hugs Love & Strength to all of you"

Comment by Wendy Farling on November 25, 2009 at 6:50am

Wishing you all the comfort and support we all will need, May we all cry alot, love alot, and eat little.. :),

Comment by Gail Richardson on November 24, 2009 at 1:26pm

Wishing everyone peace over the holidays - I know how hard this time of year is for Bereaved parents and hope that you all manage to find a little piece of happiness with family and friends. Of course, there is a huge piece of your 'celebration' missing - I hope you all have the support and love of people who understand how you must be feeling.
Take care everyone and big hugs all round

Gail xx

Comment by Kar on November 23, 2009 at 7:15pm

I Hate & Dread the holidays - Will be so glad when they are over-

Comment by Katherine Ellis on November 23, 2009 at 4:57am

Can Thanksgiving be only days away? I have so much to be thankful for but I find myself saddened that our daughter won't be here again this year to share it with us. Holidays are the hardest for all of us. Everyone walks around all joyous when all I want is to get them over with. A part of me died the day our daughter died. There will always be that empty, lonely place inside me. I am praying for everyone, that you get the love, comfort and support you need as these holiday's pass by us.

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Comment by Stephanie on November 15, 2009 at 2:17pm

that is really beautiful. may she watch over you always. she is there with you all the time

Comment by Gail Richardson on November 15, 2009 at 3:38am

Ann - I'm glad that article was helpful to you and your husband and the others you met. As Laura mentioned before, sometime things are more than coincidences. I am so glad you had the chance to pass it on to those who really needed it.
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