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Lost Without My Mom

My mom died, August 17, 2009 of an apparent heart attack from heart failure. Her doctors never told me how sick she was and so I was blown away and am heart sick and lost without her.

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I just lost my mom on February 17th, Ash Wednesday.  I don't know if you could ever be "prepared" but it was kind of unexpected.  She was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer the 2nd week of September,…Continue

Started by Amelli Gomez. Last reply by dream moon JO B Apr 9, 2021.

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Hi, I'm new around here. My mother passed away on Saturday February 6th, very suddenly and unexpectedly. We were in touch every day, via text, e-mail and phone calls, and we saw each other every…Continue

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Hi! I'm a new member. My name is Emily. My mom died Dec 27,2012. I had a question for anyone in the group............. Does anyone ever feel torn-part of them wants to be with friends but the other…Continue

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Comment by Laura Krause on August 2, 2011 at 12:18am

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I dont know how to tell you to cope. My mom loved me just like yours loved you, flaws n all! Sometimes I just cry n let myself feel miserable. sometimes I remember all the things my mom loved to do and all the things and people she loved. That makes me feel better, briefly. Just try to get by minute by minute. Laura

Comment by K.T on July 25, 2011 at 6:28pm
I feel like I've lost the one person that would have loved me unconditionally "forever". She saw passed all my flaws and mistakes and would never have stopped loving me. How do you cope when you lose that??
Comment by Sue Waxman on July 18, 2011 at 7:03am
The one thing we can say..we had amazing, loving Mother's. Thats why we miss them so much! What will we do now?
Comment by Sue Waxman on July 18, 2011 at 7:00am
Three weeks ago today I lost the one person who loved me with her entire heart. Mom I miss you. How do we find any real meaning when we are alone and have no one to love us?
Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on July 1, 2011 at 6:02pm
Paige, you will never forget her, she is with you, remember that.....that should give you comfort....dont feel bad about anything....my mom was my best friend too, but im still here and hanging in, and will never forget her because she is part of me....as is your mother honey....just remember that ;).....she wants you to be happy
Comment by Paige Lovelace on June 28, 2011 at 8:46am
11 years ago today my precious mother Audrey died of Ovarian cancer and I miss so much. It is as bad as the day she died. I am so afraid if I move on and not grieve her any more I will  forget her. She was my best friend and she was the only one who protected me when I could not protect myself. I have cried so much today. I just don't know what to do with my pain and grief it just won't go away. I love you mom and I can't wait to see you again.
Comment by katrina on June 27, 2011 at 2:56pm

I lost my mom on January 10, 2011. Everysince the day she passed,I have been going on an eating binge.  I can't seem to pull myself back. I weighed about 125 then and about 145 and gaining. I am trying to cut back, but the food is comforting me. I need to quit eating, but not having much success.

Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on June 12, 2011 at 5:32pm
I am lost without her, I really am, but trying to go on....
Comment by Rachel Lynn Schuler on June 11, 2011 at 10:03am
95 is a blessing Judith....wow....but its hard no matter when they go...my mom was 80, but I thought she would live to at least 85, she was in great health....I see women who look like my mom did and it makes me ball....also, looking at myself in the mirror is hard because I look just like my mom, the resemblance is uncanny....its so hard...I love her so....I ache for her.....I moved to PA also to be close to her, I lived in VA....I am glad that I did that to be near her and to spend time with her....I miss you mom.....
Comment by Dylan Ishmael on June 10, 2011 at 9:15am
I thought that Joyce Carol Oates's "A Widow's Story" was helpful for me, even in dealing with Mom's death.  She captures what it's like to experience grief in a real way.  It made me feel less crazy.
 

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