How do you get through the holidays without the ones you spent them with ??

I can't go to my sisters house, They don't understand I spent all my holidays with Mama,and all I get out of one  them is Mama wouldn't want you to do this Tina, and I lashed out  with well Mama isn't here to tell me that now is she!I  my one sister her in-laws didn't like my mom, the other one she can just put things out of sight out of mind , I don't want them miserable , I just want to understand and let me  be I am open to suggestions Please!! Does anyone else feel the same?

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Permalink Reply by steacy del valle on November 26, 2010 at 11:26am
i know what youmean for my mom and me this was are favorite time of the year especially thanksgiving that i would always help her cook it was like our mother daughter bonding. we use to always sit together at the table i use to always make a little prayer and we all ate together as a family. This year was so completely different because my boyfriends mother is a jahova witness and she brought them up with that mentality but there grandma does celebrate it so everyone ate no one together no sitting as a family no little prayer no nothing i got so depressed it was extreamly hard for me

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