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Lost my husband the father of my kids and bestfriend . 6 Replies

  I lost my husband we were high school sweethearts we had plans and it was not suppose to be this way we had two kids together and I feel so lost and the pain i feel becuase of how much I miss him…Continue

Started by Nicole. Last reply by Martha Washburn Sep 22, 2022.

Loss of spouse… 3 Replies

For 40+ years we were together…married 39 years….We were to celebrate our 40th anniversary…Nobody who hasn’t been married, and lost a spouse could possibly understand….even though he was into many…Continue

Started by Susan B. Last reply by Connie Sep 1, 2022.

Today is the anniversary of my wedding day 2 Replies

I got married on May 1, 1992 and lost my husband on June 30, 2017. My wedding day was the happiest day of my life and if I had one wish, it would be to go back and live that day over. It has been…Continue

Started by Carol Klotz. Last reply by Carol Klotz May 3, 2020.

Lost my light in the darkness 2 Replies

I lost my wife on the 25 of March after returning from my Dads funeral. She is everything to me. No matter how bad it got, no matter how much my PTSD drug me down, She has been my light in the…Continue

Started by Shane Hughes. Last reply by Shane Hughes Apr 16, 2020.

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Comment by Linda Engberg on March 17, 2020 at 6:29am

Joe,

I was thinking the same thing take me and protect my family. I am hoping like you.

Comment by Joe Kelly on March 16, 2020 at 4:10pm

Linda,

For you, me and many here, we may soon have our prayers answered.  I just pray it's just me and not my children or grands.  That will hopefully be the case.

Comment by Linda Engberg on March 1, 2020 at 8:05am

PLEASE GOD, JUST TAKE ME

Comment by Linda Engberg on February 29, 2020 at 10:51am

Martee,

I am so sorry for your loss. I feel we all have had some regrets when losing a loved one, but we still try to go on in this world, even when we don't want to.

Comment by Martee on February 28, 2020 at 3:43pm

Sorry for your losses as well. I am at 30 days since my husband was overtaken by severe depression and alcoholism, he took his life at 58 yrs old, he didn’t even know he did he was so out of it. I am free falling still and my life is over, I too died on that day! My last words were not very kind, we had an argument and without a word or hint he did it in the back yard. 

I have no idea how this goes nor do I have interest in going forward without him in my life! I saw his face on home video he was in such a dark place, I was not there for him!

I hate everything in this world I so jealous of everyone I see who has a living spouse.
Today I saw a pic of us, I was thinking I can barely remember how it felt to be happy and to feel joy or to be  loved...

Comment by Linda Engberg on February 22, 2020 at 10:03am

Hi Bluebird,

Thanks for your kind post. I feel the same as you about getting another pet. No other dog could ever take her place and no man could ever take the place of My Dear Husband, Julian. As with you, I don't want to face anymore deaths but seeing it is part of living we don't have much choice. Take Care, Linda 

Comment by bluebird on February 22, 2020 at 7:51am
I feel the same as both of you. morgan, I'm sorry you had a particularly bad day -- I certainly know what that's like. I hope today is easier for you. Linda, I know what you mean about your dog. When our cat died, aside from the sadness I felt at his death because I love him, I felt additional sadness because him being dead meant that another link with my husband was now gone. I can't handle any more death, so much as I love animals I will never have another pet. Some people find that getting another pet, especially a rescued/shelter pet, helps them.
Comment by Linda Engberg on February 22, 2020 at 6:09am

Hi Morgan,

I just wish I could have died with Julian. Like you, everyday I just go through motions. I am blessed with my Sweet Dog, Babie J. I am living for her. She now has dementia and it is so sad to watch her declining. She has been by side since Julian died and was my only comfort. I don't know what I am going to do without. God Bless her little soul.

Comment by morgan on February 21, 2020 at 10:35pm

Amen Linda.......Today for whatever reason was a particularly rough day.  I am exhausted from crying.   I just don't know how long I can keep pushing forward.  I am definitely in the hate mode.......

Comment by Linda Engberg on February 21, 2020 at 3:08pm

 

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