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Comment by dream moon JO B on December 10, 2012 at 3:45pm

i no how u feal kim sinse my dad died every funrall after his seams to be geting harder its nealy all having the big c i wish ther woz a cure to get rid of ot with all the rechearch at all the labs they do and all the morden tecnolgy they have thy shud have a cure by now iv lost to many family to this deses my cuzen steve o woz the life and soul of the party he wud make evry laff it woz his anversry yesteday of his passing over 10 yrs ago he died yesterday he cud go in to a room and make evry 1 laff he woz only 47 its so sad tht he never got to sea his geandchildren bean born its the only time u get to sea family these days at funralls and thy still dont get on thy want speek to this 1 if thy speak to me or thy wont speak to me if i speek to this 1 i o is silly lifes to short for petty feuds tht last for yrs

Comment by Brenda Ann on December 10, 2012 at 12:43pm

Dear Kim,

 

If only I could remove this pain from you, I would do it. However, please allow me to make a suggestion that I have found helpful. I believe that Jesus gave us a hint by what is mentioned at Hebrews 12:2, which says, " . . .looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured. . .”

 

Jesus set an example for us to look forward to the future, or, the end result. He knew he was going to die but his death, no matter how terrible, would mean life to all mankind and it would glorify his father’s name. He would also become the King of God’s Kingdom government that would bring blessings to all men. His focus was on the benefits of bringing the earth back to its original paradise conditions, bringing all those in the memorial tombs back to life and destroying death forever.

 

(Psalm 37:10, 11)” And just a little while longer, and the wicked one will be no more; And you will certainly give attention to his place, and he will not be. ¹¹ But the meek ones themselves will possess the earth, And they will indeed find their exquisite delight in the abundance of peace.”

 

(Psalm 37:29) “The righteous themselves will possess the earth, And they will reside forever upon it.

(John 5:28) Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out.”

 

(Revelation 21:4) “And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.”

 

So it helps me to focus not on the present pain of our losses, but on the future promises of God. If we focus on the pain, that is all we have, pain.  However, if we focus on the future joys, we have HOPE – if we don’t have hope we truly have nothing. . .

 

Your friend,

Brenda

mawmaw1591@gmail.com

www.grief-and-comfort.com

Comment by Kim Phillips on December 9, 2012 at 8:34pm

Having a really really hard time coping with the loss of my loved one.  She passed 7 months ago.  It doesn't get easier with time and especially around the holidays.  At times I wish I would have died too. I feel when she left 1/2 of me went too.  I don't know who I am any more.  I feel like an empty shell.  I just go through the motions in life.  

 

Comment by dream moon JO B on December 7, 2012 at 2:53pm

so sory abot yore nephew dennis i wud not wish this evil deseseon any 1 the funrell i woz at yesterdays woz a surgate uncle he survied the big c in the 1980s he woz 95 wen we come out of the creamortoriam the snow woz on the ground and snowing some of the snow has melted now i wishit ther woz a cure for this evil desese they shud be now wit all the rserch tht they do

Comment by Dennis C. on December 7, 2012 at 6:57am

Yesterday the family buried my 29 year old nephew. Charlie died from Lung cancer. He fought his battle for almost 7 years.

There is no war like the war of cancer.

I felt so bad for my niece Sarah. They were driving back home from a weekend trip (supplied by the "make a wish" foundation) and he took a turn for the worse.

He died as they pulled into the driveway of their home. What a night mare.

As bad as cancer is....death feels worse.

Comment by Ann on November 27, 2012 at 10:30pm

My mom died on March 18th, 2011.  I miss her more every day.  I am just waiting to join her.  There is no more life to be lived without her.

Comment by joni on November 27, 2012 at 5:57pm

Total relate Debbie ... Haven't been on here in awhile, trying to be strong...but kinda feel a sense of impending doom with Christmas coming up... He died the day after Christmas last year...just dumbfounded....not sure what to do...not sure about anything..Major depression, guess that's normal...just hope and pray that somehow God will help and comfort us all through the upcoming weeks....love Joni

Comment by Kim Phillips on November 18, 2012 at 8:09pm

Debbie I feel you.  Been 6 months on the 12th.  It is getting harder and harder.  Her son's birthday was yesterday and it is the first time without his mom.  It broke my heart.  He tried all day to be strong but finally broke down.  We were talking about how difficult holidays are going to be and i told him some how, some way we would get through it together.  I don't understand why life can be so cruel.  I was just talking to someone on another site who just lost her 34 year old daughter.  Her daugher left behind her husband and a 3 yr old and 7 year old. This world is cruel.  SENDING  U A BIG HUG!

 

Comment by Debbie S on November 18, 2012 at 2:08pm

I really don't think I'm going to make it through this holiday season without the love of my life here. it's been 8 long months but still feels as though it was just yesterday! How in this world am i suppose to go on??Days like today I wish I could just join him. God I miss him so much! I don't understand how I finally found happiness and true loove again only to have it all taken away. WHY??? All I wanted was to be happy and I was. He treated me like an angel now what?? 

Comment by Peggy Henry on November 10, 2012 at 4:29pm

It is almost 5months since i lost him to cancer.  Today did the switch for seasonal clothes, summer away and winter out.  What a lonely feeling to have only your own to deal with.  I hate this life!

 

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