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Comment by Jeanne Potter on February 23, 2013 at 4:11pm

Hi Kathy,
I am very sorry for your loss and understand it well. I lost the love of my live 2 years, 2 months and 1 day from brain cancer. I don't understand why you feel guilt for anything due to his cancer. You had no control over what happened and there was nothing you could do except be there for him. I am sure you were and believe me that meant more to him than anything else you could have done. He is fine now, as is my husband. It is the ones they leave behind that suffer and miss them. Try to find something in your life that you feel has meaning and direct your guilt to doing something good with it. I just started volunteering for hospice and found my first visit very rewarding. I know it is not for everyone but no matter how we feel about cancer, the people suffering from it need support and many don't have that. I hope you find some peace soon. Jeanne

Comment by dream moon JO B on February 23, 2013 at 3:24pm

sory abot spelling ore name wong kathy i must of typet the wong leter sory abot it 

Comment by dream moon JO B on February 23, 2013 at 2:55pm

hi kitty sort abot yore loss i feal guilty 2 abot alot thngs in life thngs tht i cud of dun difrent

Comment by kathy bishop on February 23, 2013 at 11:24am

the guilt I feel for not being able to save him is just awful. I did what I and the drs could do for him, but it was  too late

 

Comment by kathy bishop on February 23, 2013 at 11:22am

Hi my name is kathy. I lost the love of my life 19 months too lung cancer

 

Comment by Dennis C. on February 22, 2013 at 7:53am

For anyone interested...here is a link to a small tract called

"What Hope For Dead Loved Ones?"
http://www.jw.org/en/publications/books/what-hope-for-dead-loved-on...

It is very educational. It probably offers a different view that what most are used to.

I am sharing it in an effort to offer some comfort and hope to everyone here.

Comment by dream moon JO B on February 16, 2013 at 3:33pm

it the mintit mercy i seam to be cursed by death all the deaths last month i wud of thrt last yrs bad look of death wud go away wen i woz a kid life woz mush easy wen u r a adult life seams full of death my dads 1st yr anversy is coming up wish got me a bit i only fond out at my cuzen in law s funrell tht my dads d sisters died on the same crapy ward he died on anti edi and anti ann died on the sam ward wen i woz abot 15 well i woz only a kid at the tim thn anit mary died a few yrs later on the same sh@t hole ward so it woz a crap ward thn the ward tht not many people com out of alive it sond a bit sic and as sand wen i say it  but my dads 3 sisters had ths horbel deses now its 3313 i ment its 2013 it shud be more in advansded in finding a cure whot keeps me going is my 2 carmas the 1 i take didgil fotos with wish i shre a lot of fotos on hear and my mini carmcorda wish the batrie die on me but my didgal carmara has a lutm batry just charge it up my old home vidios hav a lot of people who hav sisns past wen u watch thm on vidio its like thy r still alive if evry 1 on hear has home vidios trying and watch thm th bring alot  of happy memries i no som tims sad memrie im now 38 i keep geting told i am as senil as my 80s music but it least it woz music 

Comment by mercy on February 16, 2013 at 9:17am

JB, I know what you mean. I hate anything to do with cancer research, I change channels whenever the ad for cancer treatment centers comes on. I feel like its a big conspiracy, companies benefiting from depsperate people, even though they know that cancer is incurabel in this day and age. I'm so angry, death seems much better than this hell we are living.

Comment by mercy on February 16, 2013 at 9:14am

Mary M. When I suffered the first loss, my daughter was seven months, so I know what you are going through. What I know is that I'm in this world because of her. If I didn't have her, I know i would have died from self destruction. I feel so bad for her, since I suffered three back to back losses in her young life and have not been the same person ever since. Its very hard Mary, I know, but try and find a reason to get up everyday, my reason is my daughter.

Comment by mercy on February 16, 2013 at 9:09am

Hey Sue. Nice to hear from you too. My baby girl might think mom is crazy sometimes, sicne my mood can shif dratically sometimes. I hide my tears from her as much as I can, but its not alwyas easy. Take care dear.

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