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Losing Someone to Cancer

This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.

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Lost Dad to Lung Cancer

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I feel worse 2 and a half years on, than I ever did. 11 Replies

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Give yourself time to heal

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Comment by Karen Van Benschoten on March 21, 2013 at 12:52pm

I lost my mom to cancer almost 6 months ago, and I still can't accept that she is gone. When I think of her, I get a pain in my chest, so I start thinking about smething else. How long is it going to be before I can start grieving her loss?

Comment by dream moon JO B on March 16, 2013 at 3:58pm

i get dream linda so stange dreams i feal lik its realy hapend i do wen iv woke up im lik did it realy haoen or woz it just a dream som tims the dreams mak me feal weid all day

iv even bean to plases in dreams with my dad n othr past members pof th family 

the 1 i do get is people warking on clouds an geting to a big fields an mountains and a big lake an a hotlel it 1 side but the dreams allways feal real

Comment by Eliza on March 16, 2013 at 3:20pm
Linda, I have felt my mom's presence and had several signs from her since she passed. When she was close to dying several things happened that I cannot rationally explain. I believe that her spirit is still with me.
Comment by Mary M. on March 16, 2013 at 8:48am

Linda, I believe often times the spirits of our loved ones are around.  Just because we can't see them doesn't mean they are not close.  I hope you take comfort from this thought and know that you are loved and will see them again one day.  Blessings,

Comment by linda hernandez on March 16, 2013 at 7:42am

yesterday while i was napping i fell int a dream where my two children who had died of cancer came to me they were playing laughing having fun one i lost 21 yr ago the other i lost in Aug.any way upon me waking up i felt to kisses on each cheek and i header love you mom will see u later,i woke up in tears crying so bad i could hardly control my self just wondering if it was there way of telling me they were around?  

Comment by Mary M. on March 15, 2013 at 8:19pm

vince, thank you for your kind words but without my faith and the friends and family who God has brought alongside me, this year would have been more than I could bear.   If I have helped you in your grief journey I am glad.   Hugs & Prayers

Comment by vince s on March 15, 2013 at 6:42pm

To Mary M,A little less than a year ago my wife passed awayand it was very close to the time you lost you husband.For the past year I've been following your writings and they have been an inspiration for me.It is kind of errie the way your experiences in the past year are so similar to mine. I'm sure your writings help everyone who reads them,God knows they helped me.God Bless You Mary  

Comment by dream moon JO B on March 15, 2013 at 3:56pm

got a email today strt smoking electrick sigareats i dnt even smoke 

why do th send me  a sily thng wen it i bet it still caze the big c i bet

yea i mte drink alcole but iv cut don abit try to dring in modrasion

 

sory abot yore friend mary m the big c jst p@@ss me off so mush to many peple r geting it i no iv loost family frinds and nboz 2 it nd som of the family r still fiting it

Comment by Mary M. on March 15, 2013 at 3:36pm

Another friend had surgery for cancer tumours on her lung.  Still waiting to hear how she is, no visitors were allowed so far.   Also a young father from my church is in the final stages of cancer.  It is so sad, and I am with jb .hate hearing that another friend or loved one has been diagnosed.   Praying for both these families and all of you here who have shared feelings and opened your hearts to us all.  Hugs & Prayers

Comment by Dennis C. on March 15, 2013 at 7:10am
Here is one historical account

"and they brought him all those faring badly, distressed with various diseases and torments, demon-possessed and epileptic and paralyzed persons, and he cured them."

This is of course about Jesus. I believe with all of my heart that one day soon he will return and do the same thing.

NO MORE CANCER.
 

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