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This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.
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One year ago today pancreatic cancer took my brother in law. It is just so wrong.
so sory h b d iv lost a lot of famyly to big c ovr t yrs got a few mor tryg to beat it now i hp to god thy can
i cnt evn say ths word coz it mks me wont to be sic
Angela, it's been four months since my mom died from a long battle with cancer (18 years long, off and on), and even though I knew it was coming for years, had a wonderful relationship with her and cared for her until her last breath, I am also still struggling. I cry every day, and most nights, can't fall asleep because I'm suffocating from the grief. My dad doesn't want to talk about it at all, and my friends pretty much stopped being supportive as soon as the funeral was over, so I empathize with you. It's small comfort, perhaps, to know that others are going through this, too, but I do think it's normal. It takes people months to get over a break up- how could we possibly expect to recover from the death of the person who has been with us our whole lives in a few weeks? (Anna, I second your comment-- everyone grieves differently, and I am trying to accept that it's ok that I am still overwhelmed by the loss.)
I lost my wife 7 days ago to NCLC. She had been diagnosed only 2 months ago. The disease was so aggressive it left us breathless and not knowing how long we still had together. I feel like half of my soul is missing and a great huge hole in my life. I can only hope that this pains eases.
my partner fell asleep just over 2 months from start to finish, he went from a healthy bubbly man to a bag of bones ,,,not being able to sit up with out my help...he went through 4 lots of heavy chemo but it didnt touch it ,,, he came home for 6 days and then i codnt rouse him and he fell asleep with me holding his hands and telling him it was ok to go ..i understood ....... this has broken my heart ..it may sound silly but he was my soulmate ..my whole life ...we worked together so we were together 24 hrs aday and this has ripped my world apart...
I lost my boyfriend, To Brain Cancer last November.
I cared for him, even when he was in hospital and I am not sure even though its been nearly 8 months that I'm over it yet.
I lost my boyfriend of 9 months on June 26th. We found out in December that he had colon cancer and I'm still in shock how fast it spread even with chemo. He was my best friend and we'd planned out a whole life that will never happen now. I feel so lost without him.
To everyone prayers for comfort,and a hug to let you know you are not alone.Ann,I love what you had to say...it really sums up my pain.
Ann what a great way to put it! I totally understand and experience it.
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