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Losing Someone to Cancer

This is for anyone who has lost somone to cancer. I lost my adopted Mom to breast cancer some years ago. She was everything I could have asked for. She loved me because I was just me. She also loved my family and children as if they were her own.

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Lost Dad to Lung Cancer

Started by Shane Hughes Apr 16, 2020.

I feel worse 2 and a half years on, than I ever did. 11 Replies

Started by Michael Thompson. Last reply by morgan May 12, 2019.

Give yourself time to heal

Started by Felicia Evans May 8, 2018.

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Comment by Angela Beaver on September 6, 2009 at 7:28pm
My pain is new to me to. I have never felt this pain before and its hard to go on feeling it. People say time heals all. I dont really agree. I dont think i will ever be healed from this pain
Comment by Tracey Whitford on September 2, 2009 at 11:00pm
Cancer SUCKS!! I lost my mom 12/30/08, and the PAIN is so bad. I dont go a day without thinking of her. How in the world do people go on without their moms?? She was more then my mom, she was my best friend and I loved her so much. Im soo angry and I dont know how to get over my anger. I have never felt as sad as I do now. I had a stillborn son 3/30/99, that was HORRIBLE...I lost my dad 11/8/02, that was HORRIBLE....nothing compares to the void I feel now without mom.
Comment by Katherine Ellis on August 7, 2009 at 5:34pm
Debbie, I don't think that the pain ever goes away. It does lessen with time. Nine months isn't very long. People asked me how do you do? I think at first we are so numb we just go through the motions. But the numbness wears off after awhile and we are faced with grief, some of us alone. I'm glad you found this site. I hope it helps you in your grief. God Bless and ((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))
Comment by Debbie Lindley on July 24, 2009 at 4:48pm
It's been nine months since my mother died of cancer. Everyone keeps saying that time heals, but I think it's getting worse. Now that it's not busy it seems it has all hit me harder. I miss my parents so much it still really hurts.
Comment by Katherine Ellis on July 24, 2009 at 12:41am
As we get ready to move on to another month, I just wanted everyone to know that I am thinking of you all. Even though we may not be having the brightest of days, we are here and there is hope. Someday the sun will shine again. The birds will sing. Until then my thoughts and prayers are with you all. God Bless
Comment by Krystal Reed on July 22, 2009 at 11:00am
I lost my beautiful Mom and best friend on July 25, 2008. Life without her is a battle for me everyday. I miss her so much!!
Comment by Jacob Michael scott McLeod-Steinmetz on July 16, 2009 at 4:03am

Dear Michelle
sending you love and hugs as your ^i^Sarah's birthday approaches
may you have a peaceful day full of love and memories of much happier times
I have a candle burning for her on the leukaema angel's candle page http://nshrine.com/shrine/LeukaemiaAngels
Love Jacob's mum
"leukaemia Sux!" www.caringbridge.org/me/jacob
Comment by Katherine Ellis on July 16, 2009 at 2:21am
Michelle my heart goes out to you. Birthdays are one of the hardest days to get through. Your pain is so new. I'm glad you found this site and hope you will really use it. Write lots and often. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Comment by Rodney Reinhardt on July 7, 2009 at 4:31pm
Michelle, I'm so sorry. I wish that no other parents have to be in this lousy club.
Comment by Michelle Council on July 7, 2009 at 2:05pm
I lost my daughter to AML on 05/21/2009. She worked so hard to beat it and went to Heaven to be with Jesus. She would have been 12 years old on July 22. I miss her so very much. The days are getting so much harder.
 

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