Finally realizing

My mom died about a year and a half ago from bile duct cancer. I finally had a break down where I did not stop crying all day. I cried when my mom passed and was sad. I never had a day where I just cried all day. I think for the longest time I keep telling myself I was ok and keep everything in and it finally came out. I think I realize now that its is ok to not always be strong and not cry and had to realize I do need help and be able to talk to people. Just was curious if anyone else went through this when there loved one passed.

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Permalink Reply by dream moon JO B on September 14, 2014 at 4:31pm

so sorry chriss i thng i saed it on chat

i h a t e big c iv lost a lot of famly 2 it it

i cry at wong montets lk on a bus full of starngers it happens 

or on a train as welll

or in st

so sorry if iv bean no hlp

Permalink Reply by Chris W on September 14, 2014 at 4:41pm

Oh no you were helpful I notice even just talking about it with other people the things other people are going through has helped me out  a lot. Cancer does not discriminate hardest part is also you just cant do nothing about it once or if it hits that point of spreading. My mom was a fighter who asked if I was going be ok don't be sad and comforting me I was like this is crazy your the one dying and sick. Guess its that mothers thing LOl

 

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