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I`ve just lost my younger sister on Dec 30th 2014 aged 37, i see pictures of her and it hits me all over again, i`ll never get over her death , sometimes it feels like shes still here and then it…Continue
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I lost my 18 Year old Sister to Cancer on May 14, 2014. This day has changed me forever, I wasn't and still aren't the same person I was. When we first found out that she had cancer - we knew that…Continue
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So i lost my baby sister two weeks ago. She had just turned 18 this year. She was trying to…Continue
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My dear younger sister passed away almost 4 weeks ago and I could not cope with the pain and the yearning of her return.My life stops at the day of her passing. I have seen grief counselor and…Continue
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just loss my sister today
It's been a while since I entered this community, ever since my sister died everything has been my responsibility. My sister and me were the only two kids my parents had. Once my sister dies my mom is diagnose with cancer and today 4 years after my sisters death I sit here mourning my mom deaths and feeling absolutely alone. I lost two important people of my life. I feel so lost....
It's been a little over 2 weeks since I lost my older sister and I can't even believe I'm talking about her death. I am still in shock/disbelief and am numb. I can't move forward, can't go back. I have nothing to look forward to anymore as any plans always included her. We were best friends, she was always there to help me and now I'm alone. I just can not believe she is gone. I want to die, because I don't think I will ever be able to lead a productive life alongside this heartbreaking grief. So for me, it's like life is worth nothing now. I just miss talking to her so much. I feel like I"m suffocating with the need to see and and talk to her again. It doesn't feel real, yet it is my waking nightmare forever.
My sister will be gone 2 years on Saturday. It is surreal to think that it has been 2 years since i heard her laugh, saw her smile, and talked to her. She was killed in a head on collision at the age of 21 and every day my heart breaks that she did not get to live her life. She had just been married a couple weeks earlier and it devastates me on a daily basis. RIp my dear little sister...I miss you every day.
I don't know how to express this so that it is meaningful and respectful but after reading several posts I want to say I am jealous of what you all have lost. and I'm suggesting that you try to avoid taking for granted that you ever had it in the first place. there were no guarantees, every day you get with someone you love and loves you back is a gift. everyone assumes it's a given to quarrel but underneath it all, to be tight with your family. but it's not a given. my younger sister never considered my feelings or needs, she couldn't, she was too broken to. we have had a one way relationship for all of her life where she has caused me more emotional and financial pain than anything else on this earth could have. But I still feel the grief of her pain. So even though I never received anything but torture from her, I still have the pain associated with her suffering. So that is why I hope you recognize that even if your sisters were your worst nightmare you would probably still be in so much pain. So the fact that they were your closest friend, etc, is something to be celebrated completely aside from your grief. At least she gave you those memories, albeit cut short.
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